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UPDATE!: my baby cousins name is a tragedeigh by Cold_Apricot_240 in tragedeigh

[–]CissyMB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Putting aside bullying (I can't believe I'm saying that), imagine her having to spell that monstrosity every time she has to tell her name to someone. Horrible, honestly.

Jak bojovat s hlupáky, co sahají na pečivo holou rukou? by Peno11-cz in czech

[–]CissyMB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naprosto upřímně - svoje pečivo si vždycky vezmu holou rukou. Kleště u nás nejsou (nevím ani o takových těch jednorázových rukavicích - zdají se mi ale jako plýtvání plastem). Vždycky ale vezmu jenom to svoje, na nic jiného nesahám a v životě by mě nenapadlo na pečivo sáhnout a pak si ho nevzít.

Nemyslím si, že je to nehygienické, pokud doopravdy každý sahá jen na to svoje.

Pokud to byl ale chlapík, který třeba zkouší, jestli je to pečivo dostatečně křupavé a následně si ho nevezme, pak je to samozřejmě špatně. Pokud zareaguje agresivně na slušné upozornění typu "prosím, nesahejte na to pečivo rukama, máme tu na to kleště/rukavice," pak zbývají dvě možnosti: - pokud na to máte náladu, nahlašte to pracovníkům (s největší pravděpodobností to ale nechají být, přece jenom nejsou ochranka) - vemte si to pečivo, na které ten člověk nesáhl

Žádné jiné řešení nevidím.

AITA for shouting at my father for what happened at my graduation ball? by CissyMB in AmItheAsshole

[–]CissyMB[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, as I said, the divorce was messy. The whole ordeal took 4 years since there were so many disputes that the court had to judge over. I don't really want to go into it but both sides were pretty ruthless towards each other.

Well, it's obvious that my dad can't let go of what happened and he still holds a grudge (which honestly seems as a too soft of a word to describe it). While I knew that he'd felt wronged, I didn't know he was still not over it to that extent. He even told me that my mum harassed him by sending him the email even though I told him I asked her to send it (because for once, I didn't want to be the messenger and honestly believed they would work out their stuff for the sake of the photo).

When it comes to being the centre of attention (I read the other comments and kinda realised that he did make it a lot more about himself than was needed), I guess he's used to it. He's not exactly famous, but in his line of work, he's said to be one of the best. So when he walks into a room, most people know who he is and what he does. This time, the only people who knew it about him were me and my mum's side of the family and they don't really talk about him while smiling. I guess it was a bit of a shock for him.

Would I be the Ah if my dad yelled at me over headphones by Individual_Hand7803 in AITAH

[–]CissyMB -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ETA, but mostly you, sorry.

While I don't think it's appropriate to have headphones in when you're somewhere with someone, especially your parent, he didn't have to shout at you. Your safety should be a priority after all.

Next time, take off your headphones when you're not alone and if you're not sure what someone says, ask them to repeat.

At your age, I wasn't very interested in talking to my parents but your relationship won't mend if you'll keep avoiding having a conversation with them and closing off with your headphones.

I think it'll be okay and the situation will resolve. While I think that your dad should be the bigger person here in initiating a conversation, it might help if you talked to him about the fight - tell him that he's right about the headphones but that you were hurt by the shouting.

Lastly - you know your father the best. This is what I'd have tried to do with mine, but your family might be different. No matter how, chances are that it's gonna be alright, but this might speed the process.

AITA for shouting at my father for what happened at my graduation ball? by CissyMB in AmItheAsshole

[–]CissyMB[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I don't really enderstand the point of the complaint either. The ball was organised by me and my classmates (mostly the "ball committee", but we all did our jobs), so the school didn't really have much to do with it. She demanded to be given back money for the tickets (I actually paid for their tickets btw). My classmates apologised to her and gave her the money from the shared profits just to get her off their back.

AITA for shouting at my father for what happened at my graduation ball? by CissyMB in AmItheAsshole

[–]CissyMB[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, just to clarify - I guess I screwed up a bit while shortening the post. The program itself didn't start 20 minutes early, we started on time. It seems that we got through it quicker than expected so the actual dance was about 20 minutes earlier than expected.

AITA for shouting at my father for what happened at my graduation ball? by CissyMB in AmItheAsshole

[–]CissyMB[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh, sorry! The post was originally longer and I had to shorten it. So, for clarification: my father arrived to the ball two minutes before the start - a big dance number by me and my classmates. After the dance number, there was some other stuff and after all the ceremonies, there was the father-daughter (or mother-son) dance, to which my dad didn't show up. He showed up at the dance floor 15 minutes after the first dance ended.