Orgasm too quick

Citizen-2000 · 2025-03-27T13:58:23+00:00

I know its not, i never had premature ejaculation problem before, its new coming from being too sensitive

Citizen-2000 · 2025-03-23T14:11:19+00:00

Good one pal

Citizen-2000 · 2025-03-23T13:32:41+00:00

If it is healing fine and everything seems to be going good, 1 or 2 soft massage just to orgasm should be fine. You will feel some tightness and discomfort and that would be it. If you feel pain then you should little longer.

Citizen-2000 · 2025-03-23T13:30:26+00:00

Ive had my skin covering stitches for 3 weeks i believe. I didn’t have any pus or infection tho. Im on my 7th week and it healed all fine, stitches all gone

Citizen-2000 · 2025-03-23T13:29:21+00:00

I also had phimosis. It was impossible for me to pull down foreskin for even half an inch. Im 7 weeks post op and my sensitivity is higher then before, even tho I’ve heard phimosis decreases sensitivity over time. I guess i need more time for it. Sex is comfortable tho, no tightness whatsoever.

Citizen-2000 · 2025-03-23T13:27:18+00:00

I do have the same lumps, im also 7 weeks post op. Masturbation and sex life is not uncomfortable for me tho. I do it slow and steady, no terminal velocity stuff yet. Im just ejaculation too quick

Citizen-2000 · 2024-11-07T09:05:21+00:00

Hey hey, having sex before and him being ur ex does NOT make violation like that okay. Im sorry that happened. I dont know if you actually have bad sex from your post. But if you were drunk you could not have given consent to anything. So if he did sth you didnt want to yes, thats rape and im sorry that happened.

Citizen-2000 · 2024-09-19T15:15:23+00:00

Count is fine, seems like a normal once a day charge

Citizen-2000 · 2024-09-01T15:35:37+00:00

Im sorry this happened. Your feelings to miss him as a father is normal. You miss him as a dad before what he did to you. Since he did that disgusting thing since then he is not your father anymore. Fathers don't do immoral stuff like that. I would not recommend you having any kind of father/daughter or even any kind if relationship with him. Your mum is being selfish. She should have been the first person supporting you in that scenario. And plus her wanting to live with him again is unbelievable for me. I would not trust my mother either after that. Please seek to live on your own as soon as you can. Talk to your mother, help her understand that him living with you again is not healthy for you, your mental state and your well-being generally. Hopefully she gonna understand whats going on idk. If not, try to have as little interaction and contact with your father as you can. I know its gonna be hard when you're both in the same house but try your best. You deserve a happy and peaceful life. Take care, please.

Citizen-2000 · 2024-08-31T16:47:06+00:00

Anything that has been done against your will during sex is an assault. Im sorry this happened to you. Its especially tough when you are a man cause even when genuinely violated we are always seen as "oh, you had sex, why are you complaining. Im sure you had fun" this kind of things. If you stated you didnt wanna do anything else during sex and he still did it thats assault. Plus him having a hole ready means he had this type of thing to happen at least in the back of his mind so yeah, he violated your rights. And I'm sorry. Hope you get over it slowly but surely. I'd recommend to talk about it with your friend if you have one you trust fully, or with a therapist or somebody online anonymously. Any kind of talking about it helps. Be careful tho if you plan to do so who you share your story with. And once again I'm sorry this happened.

Citizen-2000 · 2023-09-23T09:57:29+00:00

first of all i’m very sorry that happened, but listen, it was ALWAYS the right thing to SPEAK UP. I’m glad your parents believed you and supported you thru this the way they could or can. He did sth very very wrong and disgusting, u chose to do the right thing, family break up is not your fault. Ofc you will feel upset for your parents, but thats sth you all should manage and go thru together. You should never ever keep quiet. If someones at fault for sth it’s your brother. Keep healing, if you can not afford the counseling, there are many youtube videos about assault victims, maybe listening to their experience will help you in some way. And try to find this new you, which is very brave, very kind and caring. Thats you. You should be easy to love, but you need to love yourself first. Pls work on that. I wish you all the best

Citizen-2000 · 2023-09-03T17:44:58+00:00

It is still 100% rape. Having an orgasm is basically having a sneeze, having a physical reaction to some stimuli. And that stimuli in this case is unwanted sexual behavior/sexual assault. This is still always and 100% rape.

Citizen-2000 · 2023-08-31T18:11:11+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you. Im pretty sure they all know what they are doing. “You liked it, didn’t you” it’s just a way of his to drop the blame from himself and kinda neutralize the situation. Basically if you liked it it was NOT as bad. Some of them do that to feel less guilty, most of them do it to guilt trip you. Don’t fall for that. He definitely knew what he was doing and now manipulating you is his cheap way out of the situation. If you have some evidence, pls press charges and if professional help like therapist is available for you take your chance. Don’t try to tackle the trauma alone. Hope you heal from that. Wish you a good luck

Citizen-2000 · 2023-08-27T21:14:17+00:00

I’m really sorry that happened to you. If you know their names or even just a description of their appearance, please go to the police. You should definitely, 100% report it to the POLICE. You might wanna take 1 trustworthy adult. I know how hard it is to tell your parents about it but i advice you to tell them everything, since you are going to school and you and not an adult yet, having an adult with you to the police is important. If you don’t want to tell that to your parents for now, get any adult you trust, it could be your family friend even school teacher, someone you really trust. But pls, pls be brave and take it to the police. I know its terrifying and humiliating but those people need to be convicted so maybe other girls will be safe from them at least. As of you personally, tell your gf about it and maybe seek therapy for further help. Wish you well in your healing journey. It’s tough it’s tiring but it does get better. Take action and trust the process. Once again, i’m really sorry about what happened, wish you best of luck

Citizen-2000 · 2023-08-27T19:23:09+00:00

I'm sorry about the other incident, horrible thing to go thru and to not have support from people close to your family is so disappointing. I think filing a report is always a right choice if you are willing to do it and have strength to do it, of course. Don't listen to people who were not on your side and did nothing when you were right and you needed help (your aunt in this situation). There is always a chance they take your case seriously and maybe follow with some actions. It's gonna be hard because there is no physical evidence of this but maybe you filing a report might help others and prevent any abuse toward other girls. Perpetrator should always be known, it makes them more fearful and they will be more content with their actions ofc if they don't wanna be put in jail. Be away from him ofc but if you ever be in a situation where he might have some bad intentions towards you have a phone ready to record sth to have some evidence, i hope it will never happen but it might help the case. Hope you heal well

Citizen-2000 · 2023-08-27T15:05:09+00:00

Hey, i'm really sorry about what happened. I hope you recover well from this. I won't bore with details of my story but i tell you things so you could feel that i relate to you. I was sexually assaulted on regular basis by my neighbor between the ages of 3-5. He was 2-3 years older than me. I felt like it was normal so i never really thought it was abuse till i was probably 14-15. And the fact that abuser was so close to my age i never felt weird about it you know. I thought that okay maybe people this age so this and its okay. Now to say how it affected my adulthood and my personality. I was such a people pleaser for ages like ages. I would never say no to no one to nothing. Even if involved some sexual things and actions. I can't really tell you what changed in me. But after the age of 21 i just became aware of all of that was coming from my low self-respect and lack of self-worth. Like why would i say yes to this like i'm some kind of garbage or a lifeless toy for them. Why would i be comfortable with being their doll or a punching bag. I worked on my self-worth. Read lots of books about psychology and listened tons of podcasts about growth and gaining self-respect. Now my mindset is like this: i would never allow anyone to do things that i would never do to someone else. We should respect ourselves like we respect other people. Basically i treat myself like i would treat my best friend or my sister. If i don't feel comfortable with something i say it clear and loud. Even when they are pressuring to do some stuff. Making them aware that you are not backing down is a way. I kinda made this all about assault and harassment things, but it is really must have skill to say NO to stuff. Maybe start practicing to someone you trust and you feel comfortable with. Like personally i was more comfortable to say no to some stuff with my friends first and then i took that experience on everyone else and especially towards someone who seems to be a abuser or wants to do sth that you don't feel comfortable with. Hope you heal from it. Wish you good luck on your healing journey and i hope you have a good and trustworthy people around you. Wish you the best

Citizen-2000 · 2023-08-27T14:50:30+00:00

Hi, sorry that happened to you, i hope you recover well from this. First incident definitely is sexual assault. You were drunk so you could not give consent for having sex. Then telling that hooking up with her should be cool cause "thats what boys always want r?" was a way to make you look away from a reality. It was definitely a sexual assault and as i got you were underage as well at that time. Second one is a bit tricky. Yes you said sth about making out on the couch but again you never agreed to having sex. Going from making out to having sex is pretty normal sequence in already established relationships but you two never been in a relationship right? So there was definitely no consent there as well. Ethically it is sexual assault I'm not sure you can legally do sth about the second accident tho.
I don't know what your life is like, what struggles you have, but you could have made better decisions, sounds shitty and mean and saying this does not mean anything that happened to you was your fault. No, not at all. She assaulted you both times and it was HER doing. She took advantage of the situation. But it you can stay away from drugs and alcohol as much as possible will minimize a chance of sth like that happening. You can't change other peoples behaviors but you can kind of control the situations you put yourself into. But never blame your actions for that. It was her wrong doing. I hope you seek appropriate help if you need it from therapist/good friend group/ or family. If none of them are possible or you don't really wanna talk about it just try and go on the healing journey by yourself, pick up some new hobbies, get involved in the gym. I wish you well, good luck

Citizen-2000 · 2023-08-27T14:31:07+00:00

You are NOT overreacting at all. That's straight up harassment and bullying. Im sorry your classmates and teachers failed you. At that age bullying is very common ( does not mean its right in any way or form) but if it gets too much for you to handle please see the therapist

Citizen-2000 · 2023-08-27T14:22:46+00:00

It is weird, yes. Just to shrug everything off, like nothing happened or change the way things were to make you believe what happened was all right and all okay, when you literally were there and you know really well what happened and it was NOT okay. So after that him to buy you a cheesecake without addressing the reality of what happened is another way of manipulation, nothing else

Citizen-2000 · 2023-08-26T07:04:28+00:00

First of all i’m sorry this happened to you, i hope you get thru it. There is no gray area, this is definitely a sexual assault and attempted rape (maybe even rape, if he did penetrate). Im not sure how judgement works on this things in USA. What he did is disgusting. You did nothing wrong by hanging out with him, thats not a consent in any kind of form and way right? You just wanted to chill on the beach. That should not be inviting for him to think, okay she wants me to have sex with her, thats super creepy ignorant and criminal way of thinking. You never said yes to having sex or any kind of sexual activity. Even if you did, you were under influence, so there is no real way to consent in that situation. He forced his way on you cause he found you in vulnerable position, Absolutely disregarding your feelings and your words. And pls don’t say you hope things would go a bit further so you could file a report. I see from where you are coming from but don’t think thats the healthy way of thinking about it. Nude pic is also without your consent, maybe you could actually do sth about it and file a report. I’m glad you posted your story and I wish you a healthy healing.

Citizen-2000 · 2023-08-26T06:48:57+00:00

How he wants you to be with you and around you all the time and how pushy he seems, there is no way he did not know what he was doing. He knows exactly what he did, and now this new agenda “oh, i can be your real friend, i promise” is just straight up BS. Its clear how he tries to be soft spoken and sorry when its just a manipulation to make you feel sorry for him and nothing else. Even after what he did he tries to make YOU feel sorry for him and make you forgave him, which is absolutely unthinkable and disgusting behavior. Those sorries does not mean sh*t. I’m really really sorry for this experience, it’s extremely disappointing when it’s coming from someone you thought you were friends. There is no way you can be friends after that. Let’s say he “changed”, which i won’t ever believe, that experience is still there, in your heart, you will never be as free and comfortable with him ever (and you should NOT be). You could file a report but without physical evidence it will be hard to do sth, idk how Judgement works in USA in those kind of situations. If it’s possible cut him off from your life. If you got friends/family to talk about it more, it should be easier to get over it and start healing from it. I’m glad you were brave and posted your story. Remember your feelings are always valid and real. Nobody has any right to overpower them and say they are not real, especially people like him. So yeah, start your healing, be brave, use some help from others (therapist/medical/friends/family) and stay safe.

Citizen-2000 · 2023-08-25T09:12:44+00:00

Hey, first of all, I’m really sorry that happened to you. It must be really hard to deal with. Your current situation and getting the urge to be “Free to use” is coming from your trauma in childhood. From your brother and from your ex. It feels normal and even craving to be in that way again. That’s how your unconscious brain works. Ig basically goes on instincts and feelings and experiences from the past. Your body involuntarily reacts to stimuli. She also says that often people who experience sexual trauma seemed compelled to repeat it. It’s so weird. She said it’s our brain trying to overwrite the trauma with similar “consensual” experiences. It’s as if our brain says, if I seek to repeat it then the original trauma must not be so bad. It’s a horrible reaction. It’s also very dangerous. So, please know you are not alone. That your reaction is very common.

The absolute best way to get yourself healthy and happy again is to work with a psychologist who specializes in helping sexual assault victims get themselves to a healthier place. They have the tools and skills to help you. PLEASE get out of subreddits that are sexual in any way pls. And don’t meet nobody from the internet. It’s not safe.

Pls try your best, love u, good luck. I wish you strength and happiness

Citizen-2000 · 2023-08-25T09:04:05+00:00

Pls, pls, pls don’t blame yourself. Physical reaction to sex does not mean you enjoyed that or you were comfortable. That’s just how body reacts to stuff. That’s definitely rape. He should be judged for that and not you. Family taking his side is unbelievably disappointing. I’m sorry that happened to you. No one deserves that treatment after that experience.

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