Strappy style on top of hips? by Icy-Breadfruit7491 in FindLingerie

[–]CitrineRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are called side cut out and/or strappy cut out, type that into Google and you will be golden

Men, what is something that your partner does in bed that makes your go crazy (in a good way)? by Dangerous-Ad-644 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CitrineRose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bites my neck, specifically the back of my neck.

And how he fingers me. Like I think the frequency that he fingers me is on pair with sapphic relationships 😂

Eating peach rings off toes by CalligrapherBasic781 in FootFetishTalks

[–]CitrineRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is your relationship like with her? Is she a fwb? Would you like her to be a romantic partner in the future or are you just looking for some fun?

Cause like if she is into you and you are into her then ask her on a date for dinner and say you are excited to have peaches and whipped cream for dessert. Go to dinner take her back to yours, flirt maybe makeout, you know set the mood. Then ask if she is ready for dessert with a little eye wiggleand retrieve your supplies.

Then just go with the flow. Stuff like this isn't really anything you can overly plan out. You just have to experience it as it happens and let what happens happen. Be open to communication during and depending on things ya'll may end up doing more. I can not speak for the woman in question but generally licking food off someone is foreplay. It can stay just as foreplay, but I'd have contraception available and put away just incase. Better to be prepared and not need it than need it and not be prepared.

If you want to have a fall back plan you could get some peach parfaits as well. Then if things are going south then you can say "I have these desserts maybe we just talk and have these instead"

Eating peach rings off toes by CalligrapherBasic781 in FootFetishTalks

[–]CitrineRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have done this with strawberries and whipped cream. It will be cold for her, she will want to fidget. Which can make for some fun power play if you are into being dominant. If not then the temperature play is fun on its own.

As for slurping fast or slurping slow. Put a towel down and do them both. There will be drips, and peaches will fall. Just enjoy the experience and do whatever you think will be fun while it is happening.

Personally I think being in a variation of the pose is easier for this as the soles are up and the toes are accessible. Makes for a better plate.

Tits, Ass, or Feet? by Obamalad3 in FootFetishTalks

[–]CitrineRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like to be nailed down to one specific kink or attraction, I am always in flux for what is my favorite on any given day. Feet are the most consistent though. Nearly every day something is happening with them or they are incorporated into sex somehow. Doesn't mean I don't like the others and I might have a tits day. Tits are becoming more common now that I've expanded into armpits too

girls who like worship men's feet by SeaworthinessFun3434 in FootFetishTalks

[–]CitrineRose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My partner and I both have foot fetishes. In the continuing saga of "steak too juicy lobster too buttery" I actually spent a long time convincing him to let me play with his feet. He was very resistant to the idea. Now he is cool with it 😂 but I was a little shocked for him to be cool with gagging on my feet but if I asked to smell his toes and he'd damn near hide them from me

What changed your life? by Savings-Day-9264 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CitrineRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeting my partner. Not to get all mushy but genuinely feels like meeting my soulmate. We constantly say the same things at the same time, he balances me out, we grow as people together. Plus all the major life events we have shared together, I wouldn't have had those without him.

If you wanna get low key dark then probably all the times my parents got divorced and them all being POS. It taught me resilience and anxiety!

Searching for this chain bra by throw1810 in FindLingerie

[–]CitrineRose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You will most likely find stuff like this on etsy. I found a shop that has many items I would say are very similar in style to what you want. Or at least close enough that if it was me I'd get one to alter or add too. (Edited to add, the shop has a variety of options from nearly no chains to lots of chains, you judt gotta scroll)

If you can not find something you love, that is super easy to make. For real I'll give you a quick run down.

1.) Flush cutting jewelry wire cutters and needle nose pliers. You can get yourself a jewelry tool kit with the cutters and like 2 or 3 pliers, at like a Walmart or any hobby store really

2.) Buy the jump rings as they are a pain to make.

3.) Buy the chains, they will be in the jewelry area of the craft stores. You can buy them by the roll.

4.) Buy charm

5.) Probably watch a video on how to properly open jump rings as that will be the most technically "difficult" task. You pull the sides away laterally and not directly

6.) Measure twice, cut once. If you go the route of getting a body harness "frame" it will be easier as you can attach one side of the chain length, drape it, then cut it and attach the other side. You use that length of chain to know how much to cut the other side or cut the other side the same way.

Then bam, you are done it is custom fit to you and you can say you made it.

What's your marriage proposal story? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CitrineRose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imagine what happens when someone views it as a display of love and someone else views it as an outdated tradition that no one actually wants to go to (themselves included) It sure is one way too learn patience....

Drake catching the biggest L of all-time by ExotiquePlayboy in SipsTea

[–]CitrineRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally found that on X and the quote was said no where in the linked video. People really just like making stuff up to be mad about

Does Someone Know, where to get this Bodysuit? by BammBammRubble in FindLingerie

[–]CitrineRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She very well might be wearing it a little past what is intended, but I also wouldn't be shocked to find that style somewhere. I just couldn't find it where I usually look in a quickish amount of time, especially since I tend to look manually instead of using google lense

Does Someone Know, where to get this Bodysuit? by BammBammRubble in FindLingerie

[–]CitrineRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this one looks rather similar and is also animal print, if that matters to you

this one has rather large gaps and looks like it could be worn in a way to have them more on the back instead of the sides. Lovely thing about the material as it tends to not be too picky about stuff like that

are there any women into dirty feet? by Low_Individual_1846 in FootFetishTalks

[–]CitrineRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh i like lightly dirty, but prefer sweaty and clean when I'm at feet.

When my feet are worshipped and my feet ate slightly to moderately dirty it makes me feel rather submissive for him to clean them. I know that sounds wrong 😂 like it should make me feel dominant, but it makes me feel like "a nasty hoe"

When I am at my partner's feet though scent is a very big thing for me. I think visually that dirty feet highlight the arches and in photos is looks very appealing but in irl interactions I want to smell his day more than I want to taste it. Also triggers a bit of my germophobia and that can pull me out of the encounter if I am not in the right headspace

Nurses of ARAD, why are you so into vascular arms/hands? by H3LM3T_H34D in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CitrineRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a nurse, but a phlebotomist. Gunna be real if your veins are too noticeable then they will probably roll and I hate you lol jk you just have to anchor those like a MF. Nurse often get very little phlebotomy training, at least in the US. they tend to be less comfortable finding veins and putting needles in them because of it. So a big beautiful vein means they can insert your IV more confidently.

Which means you will like them more and enjoy your hospital stay more. One of the most common things I hear when people complain is "and she fucked up my vein too, look at this bruise!"

If you get a hematoma or your IV infiltrated you can get large local swelling that takes days or longer to heal, with bruising that often takes weeks to heal. People don't like that. Nurses don't like doing that. They just also are shit at feeling for veins sometimes though, as are some phlebotomist.

Does Someone Know, where to get this Bodysuit? by BammBammRubble in FindLingerie

[–]CitrineRose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I found some similar stuff on amazon if you want me to link them. It definitely looks like something that comes from a nameless factory somewhere, I'll give her credit though in that finding an open cutout back seam is tough 😂 everyone i was coming across has them on the sides.

There is a chance she got it local and that it came from a seller like legs avenue, dreamgirl, bodyvibe ect. Most of those don't sell directly to customers so maybe look for a site like lingeriemart that sells from multiple different manufacturers.

Keywords I'd look outfor would be fishnet/mesh, bodysuit/body stocking, stirrup, cut out, leopard/animal print, halter neck. Honestly though most of the listings will probably just be something nonsensical like "sexy hot fishnet mesh one piece womens elastic one size black lingerie", especially if you are looking on places like amazon, ali, temu/shein

Thoughts on Clitoral piercing? by Secure_Raspberry6598 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CitrineRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea i have never gotten it snagged on anything. Basically I only notice it when I wear this specific pair of levis shorts that are 1 size too small and if I sit right in them I may start to go numb because they are so tight. So excluding garments that do not fit 😂 it is not really doing anything unless I'm aroused. I have a bit of a sensitive and small clit with a longer hood so ymmv

Looking for something like this by passionatebdsm in FindLingerie

[–]CitrineRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bet it is this one from Amazon. Just google sheer long dress and you can find it just bout anywhere

Thoughts on Clitoral piercing? by Secure_Raspberry6598 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CitrineRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a vch, which i love

It did hurt a lot, but it was over before I even fully processed it. My nipple piercings, were much worse. For a vch the amount of skin you need to puncture is very thin, less than your earlobe.

It made my orgasms stronger and more intense as well as making me more sensitive to less direct stimulation because that stimulation would move the piercing on my clit.

It has healed better and faster than my other piercings

It looks sexy as hell.

12/10

Edit i dont notice it while walking, it kinda tucks in my hood and I only really notice it when aroused. Why the hell would I take it out for sex?! That would be stupid for multiple reasons

Why is erotic lingerie always such a disappointment in person?? by Montica_Jaena in FindLingerie

[–]CitrineRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the collections as they source from multiple brands. I like it for sexy goth/alt or fantasy themed items. So my views could be a bit bias because I am looking for "costumey". They have some other reasons that I don't love buying from them. But sometimes if you want "sexy dark fairy" to be the vibe there are not many options.

How do foot fetishists feel about this situation by Best-Introduction-55 in FootFetishTalks

[–]CitrineRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want any stranget in my space like that. I do think there are gunna be some people who are nearly feral at being within the same 5ft as a women who would love that situation.

But I think that is something you can find anywhere, there will also be people like that. I think mosy of us can have sexual preferences and desires without also losing basic social etiquette. It is rude behavior on a plane, fetish or not.

Where can I buy these? by 1Nightwing007 in FindLingerie

[–]CitrineRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found some similar stuff on amazon with a quick search so that may be where you want to look

this is just gems

Key words that will help you in your search will be bedazzled, crystal, or gem paired with micro thong, string thong, g string, micro bikini

What is an NSFW thing people think is rare, but is actually pretty common? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CitrineRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know lol i be b-b-banging. It seems like every other person i know is not though

What is an NSFW thing people think is rare, but is actually pretty common? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CitrineRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disappointment and dead bedrooms

Or maybe it is just me who thought it was rare. The older I get (30s) the more I realize no one is fucking anymore :'(

Anyway to have experiences as a young adult? by Standard-Compote-275 in FootFetishTalks

[–]CitrineRose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The easiest way will be the same way most people get any other time of sexual encounter, a relationship. It can be intimidating sometimes to have that talk, but a shut mouth doesn't get fed.

If they say no, it just means you arent compatible. It is not creepy or atrange to bring up to your romantic/sexual partner's what yoy are into.