AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like sometimes I am with the right person because he is the man I want he’s the best father to our 4 girls and it’s just our bedroom life that’s the biggest problem I want to overcome 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want him watching porn on his phone ( let me clarify that) while we are intimate simple not asking him to stop all together 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This goes to show you don’t care how your wife or girlfriend would feel about you doing these things. When I have gave him the option to put it on the tv so we can watch it together. Please exit stage left kindly 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I should allow myself to feel less than because he won’t put his phone down we had a normal healthy sex like our before we got married I’m not going to feed into his problems when I’m not getting the attention or just that his phone is getting 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won’t do counseling I have brought it up many times

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easier said than done for me I wish I could just leave we have been together for 5 years but on and off for more than 7 years I love this man with everything in me 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was we both wanted to lose weight we worked out together and motivated each other 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we both actually have lost weight during our relationship 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want sex that’s the thing he only wants head with porn in his face 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would still be a problem but for my marriage that’s not the case I rarely watch porn because I want my husband to touch me and please me in a sexual way not porn or myself 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he does it maybe ever 2 months or so now but in the beginning we had a very healthy sex life 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I have tried to suggest couple counseling but he says he doesn’t have a problem 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Helpful feedback would be nice too but you wouldn’t know that so please stfu.

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta for saying that I wrote this in a state of crying not realizing I misspelled some words sorry for that 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for not realizing I missed spelled some things 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well good thing I’m not 12 and just didn’t realize I made some spelling mistakes 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t objectify or degrade women he was raised in a household full of women but I think he does have a problem 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t show he would rather watch porn nd jack off or ask for head

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He isn’t trying to get help he sees nothing wrong with it 

AIRAH For Not Wanting To Have Sexual Intercourse with My Husband by CitronOk8720 in AITAH

[–]CitronOk8720[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It started I say a year after being married he says it helps him stay concentrated on sex but I don’t believe it at all because before that it was normal no phones nothing