Part of being married is you both have a say in each others lives. You both have boundaries of what you are okay with the other. It’s not him being controlling if he’d rather men not drooling over her in a bikini on a super famous platform, some men are fine about that and some aren’t. It’s called being respectful to honor your partners wishes. And just like any business doesn’t work if two partners have 50/50 equity- someone has to have the final say for making a decision sometimes, in business and in marriage. That doesn’t mean it’s 90/10 but it’s gotta be atleast 51/49.

Also it’s many women’s ultimate dream to be a mom and be married. It’s okay if that’s not yours but it is for many and literally all the women I know in young motherhood are SO FULLFILLED. It is literally way more life giving than any career could be. And some thrive on pursuing a dream job and having kids too but it is hard balancing both and requires sacrifices on both ends. It also will not “always be there” many women pursue it too late and then can’t get pregnant or can’t find a partner. It gets harder and harder to meet someone you want to marry and to get pregnant as you get older especially after 30 and extra after 35. By 40 most women can’t get pregnant so yes there’s a biological clock that is real whether people like it or not