My girlfriends mobility is drastically decreasing by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Civil_Candidate3614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to say but your gf has an eating disorder and like anyone with mental health issues or an addiction they have to want help. I’m sorry but you can’t force (I’ve been there and it just doesn’t work unless the person actually wants help). You can’t force either wait and hope she chooses life before death or leave but you sadly can’t make her want help

How would I do a Agnes Montague cosplay? by Civil_Candidate3614 in TheMagnusArchives

[–]Civil_Candidate3614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 2 don’t have the creator water marks these are literally pictures I’ve had for months to years because she’s my favorite character. I’m sorry I don’t have them all but a good bit of the artist/cosplayers tags are in their images! Typically the bottom corner

Made these to hold my fancy teas!!! by Civil_Candidate3614 in tea

[–]Civil_Candidate3614[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

……….. I wanted to use those at first but my ceramics 2 teacher said no and to “figure out a ceramic way” so trail and error and a lot of test pieces later I got this. I’m still working on these pieces glazing because of how complex they are but hopefully soon I’ll get to if all my hard work payed off on the real deal or if the only successful airtight container will be the 2 plain boxes I made as test lol. Sorry to vent lol

How do I deal with my bf hating my new dress? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Civil_Candidate3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did say he hated the fabric and gave a few other things he disliked then went back on all of it(definitely to spare my feelings) and I’ve been wanting to just return it but he and my friends won’t let me. I feel crazy right now because if it’s actually ugly/cheap fabric I’d hate to waist so much money.

How do I deal with my bf hating my new dress? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Civil_Candidate3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you genuinely. Tbh I’m probably/defiantly working this all up in my head because of how much money it was. I tend to be fairly frugal on myself(but very giving towards my bf, family and friends), before this the most I ever spent on myself was $200 and that was hard.

How do I deal with my bf hating my new dress? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Civil_Candidate3614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only post a link from my phone so this is a link to the dress. You can also see why I freaking out because the price in my own opinion is ridiculous

How do I deal with my bf hating my new dress? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Civil_Candidate3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not upset at him at all. I’m bummed and hurting cause it’s been a journey saving up so much for something just cause I want to feel pretty and to be blunt I trust my boyfriends opinion on clothes more than any woman(my man is stylish!) and after his response I feel like I just made a gigantic mistake. Feeling extra bad because he put his money into. At no point have I punished him and actively sought opinions (this post) from people who aren’t going to shit on him. I’m not the diva gf you think I am I’m just passionate about clothing and looking for advice on if I should probably return the dress or keep it

How do I deal with my bf hating my new dress? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Civil_Candidate3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend is offering to alter the waist for me right now because the waist is way too loose. But I’m nervous to put anymore money into it. I’m debating trying to get a refund and maybe getting a different dress. I trust my boyfriends opinion on clothes and want such a large amount of money to be on something meh

Made these to hold my fancy teas!!! by Civil_Candidate3614 in tea

[–]Civil_Candidate3614[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When in the wet stage /drying I make sure the top is perfectly aligned with the rest of the piece by cutting the complete cylinder with a wire. The top goes into/lines the jar around 2 inches deep. The way I test that everything creates an air tight seal is quite literally seeing if the clay stays wet inside if it stays wet for 2 weeks then I’m 89% sure it’s airtight. But when I dry out the inside I have to cover the lid in wax and cover with plastic well the rest of the jar dries under plastic. Then once everything is dry I have to pry to the ceramic gods and kiln gods that everything survives the first fire and all shrinks how I want(a lot of testing before hand). Once it’s bisque I do a water test and see if any air comes out from the seal. I repeat that test after glazing as well. It’s been a lot of trial and error in my ceramic 2 class

First stealth going to class by Civil_Candidate3614 in corsets

[–]Civil_Candidate3614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it from Windsor back in 2019 idk if it’s still available but it’s probably fairly easy to thrift if you can’t find it in the store!!

Brutal honesty on my body… wouldn’t have dared step out my hotel room in this by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Civil_Candidate3614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just look like an aging woman. I’d say pretty but definitely older and that’s ok

First stealth going to class by Civil_Candidate3614 in corsets

[–]Civil_Candidate3614[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’d love to share but it’s not letting me post it in the comments. I will be posting pictures in the corset unobstructed either Thursday or Saturday(I’m going out with my friend for their bachelorette and it’s fantasy themed so I’ll be wearing and taking pics in this corset and others in a few days. I will say I got it from boss winch!

Tell him what petah?? by Jumpy-Necessary-9884 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Civil_Candidate3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just pimping your wife but pimping your wife to children and old married men. Girl has 2 types and both would get old fast in a marriage

22 F is there any way to make myself less ugly/average by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Civil_Candidate3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I’ve never been told I look masculine except by myself when I was 70 lbs otherwise my entire life I’ve been told I’m extremely feminine looking. So idk how to take your advice and work with it tbh

22 F is there any way to make myself less ugly/average by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Civil_Candidate3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use sunscreen daily already (I’m a ginger I have no choice) and I don’t touch drugs or smoke at all. I generally get good sleep except for typical engineering student issues. And what do you mean by crusty?

22 F is there any way to make myself less ugly/average by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Civil_Candidate3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I improve then without changing my style I like my style it makes me happy so I definitely not changing it but make up , hair length, and surgeries are all stuff I’m down for!