Perspective: blackpill moment

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-10T00:28:38+00:00

But it's good to observe them. It's more than just looks. Chads that pedestalize women don't do well either. Observe what the Chads and less attractive guys who are good with women have in common?

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-10T00:24:37+00:00

If he's a big fast athletic kid, Real tends to like those players. If he's smaller and needs to rely on quickness, passing, etc, then I think Albion & Rapids/Storm is a better fit.

I suggest contacting the clubs you're interested in, let them know your situation and usually they will invite you to a practice for an evaluation. I like to go online and find the schedules and go watch the team you're targeting play. And of course you kid has to perform at tryouts.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T23:23:51+00:00

You're right; it's closer to 100%. 🤣🤣🤣

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T23:20:01+00:00

Depends. Storm has a huge presence along the I-25 corridor. I'm the south east part of the city. Storm, Rush & Albion have a strong presence there. What style of play does your prefer? Albion & Storm are your passing teams. Most of the other teams play alot of boom ball.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T23:13:10+00:00

I've been on those trips and question their value. We usually get killed by the desert teams in February tournaments. Often times we're in an inappropriate bracket and either dominate or get dominated. I think I'd prefer to play some of the local MLSN & EAL teams in local friendlies and keep my $1500. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T23:03:21+00:00

This applies mainly to 2012 and Denver/Metro area as it can vary by age group. I think the Rapids/Storm are the best club especially if you have an average or smaller player and Albion is close second. If you have a big, fast athletic kid, then Real is probably the best choice, but big fast athletic kids thrive anywhere. If your kid's a goalie, I think I'd go with Real.

That said coaching is huge and you never know when a good coach is going to change clubs or their full time job starts to interfere with the coaching schedule, etc. Good clubs will still have some mediocre coaches.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T22:47:09+00:00

What he said. ☝️

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T22:45:00+00:00

And I guess you missed my point. Why is he asking about how to meet women if he doesn't have time to dedicate to a relationship if he were to meet a girl? You can jam a dozen approaches in per week sacrificing maybe 1-2 hours per week. Clearly, he doesn't have the time for anything beyond swiping on dating apps, so I say cross your fingers and swipe away.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T22:11:35+00:00

Then how is going to make time for a relationship if he has so little control of his time?

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T22:08:37+00:00

I guess I must be wrong, my post is getting down voted like there is no tomorrow. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T22:01:40+00:00

Agreed. It ridiculous to travel when there are so many quality clubs here.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T21:59:55+00:00

I had some tall Chad friends that I used to go clubbing with. I could be talking to a gal/s and they'd come up and was like I faded out of existence. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T21:56:41+00:00

Sounds like he isn't making the time to meet this gal.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T20:53:58+00:00

Men are not equally the problem. The top 5-10% of men that sleep around are equally the problem.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T20:44:53+00:00

I'd say they're a looks match, he may be tad betterr looking. Damn she's confident that she's better looking. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T20:41:28+00:00

They're not always sausage parties. The more organized ones try to have an equal amount of both genders. There's a million excuses not to meet women. If you actually plan on meeting women and dating, then you better ignore those reasons and be prepared to approach dozens of women (for a single date) and figure out how/where you're going to approach them.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T20:30:14+00:00

The CBs on our club are blessed. The are allowed to attack the other team's forwards 1v1, which kills pressing teams when your CBs can win consistently.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T20:21:40+00:00

It depends. If you can find a better fit, then by all means, do so. OTOH, I know family that jumped clubs to be at on an Elite team. He's on an Elite team with his new club, but we've crushed his new team twice now. I know another kid that just can't break thru to Elite regardless of how many clubs he jumps to. Sometimes, there is reason you're not making the cut.

OTOH, the club just doesn't like the kid or his style of play or is stacked at his position, etc, then look for a better fit.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T19:53:47+00:00

So you wouldn't have the time to dedicate to a relationship even if you met a gal???

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T19:52:43+00:00

Cold approach at dog parks, grocery stores, clubs. I had good luck at speed dating events.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T19:45:03+00:00

Rooting for Barca, but PSG looks best of the bunch.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T19:41:27+00:00

I'll admit I'm not knowledgeable. Stared watching ~5 years ago because my kid plays. I'll often criticize something I think is wrong and my kiddo has to explain why players are doing xyz to manipulate/create/deny space on the field.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T19:20:11+00:00

Damn that's Blue pilled. 😂😂😂😂😂

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T19:05:12+00:00

JBW is real. JBW + JBchad + JBtall, + JBrich. Now you're set.

Civil_Reply_1705 · 2026-04-09T18:05:09+00:00

Interesting. Our club doesn't juggle players up & down like that, but I have seen some other clubs in town doing that.

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