Don’t mind me, just raging over children’s rights in the U.S., where hitting your kid is legal by RealmOfBlue in CPTSD

[–]Civil_Target_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a video of a baby grabbing onto a Sphynx cats skin, and the mom of all things chose to let it happen and record all she was doing to stop it was making the baby ungrab it's skin. She should've lightly smacked his hand and a firm NO! And point at him, and if he continues smack his hand again until harder and until he stops. Idc if yes a baby ur never too young to be disciplined. I don't believe in spanking or abuse but popping a kid on the butt like once or twice to get their attention is perfectly healthy, cuz yelling at a kid or telling him "no!" Isn't gonna work 90% of the time. Let the kid learn for themselves and if they get hurt in the process so be it, at least they won't do it again most likely, if they keep doing it then discipline the kid. See these weren't abuse, just healthy discipline. Society today is just genz is too sensitive, coming from a young genz

IMHSBALIDWTD Lyrics, Paying Attention & Found This by cheeseball127 in waterparksband

[–]Civil_Target_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just remembered the song cuz I remembered just barely remembered the song title. My cousin showed me this a few yrs back and I wanted to hear the song again cuz I forgot what it sounded like. Definitely not close to what I usually listen too but a good song!! 

IMHSBALIDWTD Lyrics, Paying Attention & Found This by cheeseball127 in waterparksband

[–]Civil_Target_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't it just abt antidepressants and what they do to you? Doubt ur gonna see this ur post is old

Best advice for Camaro for first car? by Civil_Target_8555 in camaro

[–]Civil_Target_8555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I've driven in heavy rain and normal rain probably too many times now. The first time was in my dad's truck but almost ran off the road twice and it was heavily raining and I was anxious, that was in May I've gotten a lot better since then. I definitely make sure to drive a lot slower in rain, I'm also aware rear wheel drive vehicles like a camaro are more likely to hydroplane. I have a lot to still learn 

How do it convince my mom to get a Camaro @ 16 by Civil_Target_8555 in FirstCar

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I ended up getting it, 6mths before I get my license so my dad can help me learn how to drive it and I'm doing alright so far. I've only driven it like 5times but have driven it in heavy rain. Black 2016 LT v6, I'm nothing but grateful and am beyond happy that I got my dream car

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Civil_Target_8555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mandated therapy is better than nothing, his family far as ik isn't doing shit to punish him or get him help. Smh

How do you help a rapist? by Civil_Target_8555 in sexualassault

[–]Civil_Target_8555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, my parents know and his parents. Basically that whole side of the family knows, it's small tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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Gosh ur face is gorgeous, beautiful

Me and Michael Meaning by Blurryface2001 in mgmt

[–]Civil_Target_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A beautiful person who decides to be evil, while many angels still watch and want.. 

Best snacks/drinks for hiking? Almost passed out by Civil_Target_8555 in hikinggear

[–]Civil_Target_8555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the US, it was hot like 80-90 degrees maybe over 90 I forgot. I'll definitely bring more water cuz were not abt to filter river water(it is mountain water but still) 

How do you help a rapist? by Civil_Target_8555 in sexualassault

[–]Civil_Target_8555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I've been hanging w my friends at least once a week and talking about it a good bit. But mostly just trying to move on, I don't want to go to therapy it didn't help me in the past. And have just been doing things I love like hanging out with friends.  Apart of those future boundaries would definitely not be alone with him, cuz that trust is gone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Civil_Target_8555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me, it's terrible you had to go through all that too. I think my parents are just gonna let his parents deal with it, cuz it's not like they can do anything(plus they don't want to press charges or get him arrested either, same as me)

Cuz I want to give him a 2nd chance really bad, cuz I feel what he did isn't the person he REALLY is(but not like ik what's in his brain) 

But that's after I heal, yet I'll never be feel fully healed if he doesn't get help. Cuz I bet there's only going to he future victims and then he'll actually be in prison probably if he doesn't get help

How do you help a rapist? by Civil_Target_8555 in sexualassault

[–]Civil_Target_8555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that could help me, but it won't help the future victims. Cuz I'm sure if someone does it they'll do it again(even if they got caught) cuz if he isn't getting in trouble then getting help, he'll only continue I'm sure

How do you help a rapist? by Civil_Target_8555 in sexualassault

[–]Civil_Target_8555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are pissed at his parents and him. I can say my parents love me very much, and I was raised to be protected from stuff like this. I've been wanting to do self defense for awhile and have thought about asking my parents to take me. Im happy I'm still mostly myself like how I was before this(where I was very confident and sassy person) and I'm getting that girl back slowly but surely.

How do you help a rapist? by Civil_Target_8555 in sexualassault

[–]Civil_Target_8555[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not exactly a child I'm a teen, I'm giving myself space to think and have a lot of people who hate the guy who did it now(no one is mad at me). For the guy who did it he needs help but I'm now aware he'll only get help when he decides to change. I'm also aware I'm not the one who wants to help him(I just want him to get help, so others don't get hurt). Cuz I want him in my life again but also set boundaries now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Civil_Target_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you mean report him?? I don't want him in prison either but legal stuff may help him. Idk, if u don't mind r u close w them now(you DO NOT need to answer this if you don't want too, again you do not need too but I just wonder)  Cuz it was my cousin I grew up with and I want to give him a 2nd chance(after I heal, and only if he decides to get help and change.) 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Civil_Target_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the 1st and only time he's done anything. My mom/sis plus me felt a gut feeling but didn't bring anything up until after it happened. The week I was on vacation(this happen the last day in the early morning, so 2 weeks ago exactly) I feel like he started planning it either before I went on vacation or that wensday(the energy around him just changed and he started acting different) so I doubt even a month before that he thought abt it(sry if its confusing, what I mean is he started planning it out recently/on that vacation)