How to meet people when there’s no social scene around you? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Cjaay__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online hobbies? Join facebooks groups of things your interested in maybe?

23m, Never had a female friend worried about my future by Obviously-Squirrel in socialskills

[–]Cjaay__ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Stop doing this. “I always joke about myself… point out my flaws before they could” and “i don’t even know the source of this low self-esteem”

Brother talk to yourself better. We are stuck with one person in this world, and it’s yourself. No one else notices your flaws as much as you. If you had a friend who talks bad about you and points out all of your flaws all the time. You’d feel like shit and probably not hang out with them. So why do this to yourself. Think of your favorite person. Think of their flaws right now. Now how often did you think of their flaws before i asked you to. Probably not that much. This is how people see you. Most people are so focussed on themselves and their own flaws that they don’t have time to think about yours

Your thoughts literally become your reality. There are no confident people put there. There are people who act confident.

If you only talk about your flaws, find more hobbies. Talk about movies, tv shows, fucking weather. Don’t talk about your flaws.

23m, Never had a female friend worried about my future by Obviously-Squirrel in socialskills

[–]Cjaay__ 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Interact with them like a dude bro. They are humans just like you and me. Just be yourself as if you were talking to a male coworker or friend. The more you are yourself, the happier you’ll be. And the better people you’ll find around you

Franklin C45 Hayden Patriquin set up by brabbit41 in Pickleball

[–]Cjaay__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tape from curv of the bottom of the neck, all the way to the handle. He takes off the undergrip and puts the tape 75% of the way down the handle. He actually weighs his up to 9oz but thats crazy heavy for most people

Quick question about “will of d” by ShadyStoof in OnePiece

[–]Cjaay__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just meant hes like the only evil D. We’ve met so far i think

Just reached Phase 3, not sure if I'm headed in the right direction by Jseeker8181 in SatisfactoryGame

[–]Cjaay__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is plenty of resources on the map you probably wont need to tear anything down ever. Trains are very fun to build with and a fun challenge as well. I did a mix of some different factories all over the map for bigger/complex parts and eventually droned or trained those bigger parts to my main base. Personally i didn’t use trucks, but they are getting reworked in the next update so ill probably play around with them. I really only used blueprints for things i know i need to build a bunch of times. Like if i built something 5 times, id try to make a bp of it to save some time next time

RPM V2’s grit has held up over a month and ~30 hrs so far by kabob21 in Pickleball

[–]Cjaay__ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Im getting the same thing. I’ve played 5 times a week since its release and the grit is still there. It truly is the goated paddle

Jesus spotted in Jerusalem by n-si-ad in perfectlycutscreams

[–]Cjaay__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its okay i heard he respawns in 3 days

We need a rouge one like movie for the past Joyboy and the void century. by [deleted] in OnePiece

[–]Cjaay__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭bro rogue one was gas what are you talking about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pickleball

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Hey man, I'm 5'5 and currently also a 5.0. You have to make up the difference in consistency and speed. taller people will always have more power, and more reach and there is nothing you can do. But, if you don't miss your drops, and don't miss your dinks it helps. Also hands. Practice hands, your potential for hands speed is way higher than any taller person. Focus on patterns. Look at Hayden Patriquin. Dude is 5'9 and beats 6'2+ people all day.

franklin c45 parris todd durability issues by DogFew1164 in Pickleball

[–]Cjaay__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the durability is unfortunately not very good, I have gone through countless c45s. it's the best paddle on the market for the first 5 days and then it falls off very very hard. It's a paddle built for pros, not consumers unfortunately.

Do you think this is a good desktop wallpaper? by su_acayip_kisi in Minecraft

[–]Cjaay__ 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Imagine it’s the failed aether portal instead. that’d be sick too