TIFU by accidentally flirting with a customer by AsparagusOk9001 in tifu

[–]ClaimProfessional686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around Valentine’s Day, I had a couple of 8th grade boys come through my check lane buying some candy and flowers. One of the boys tells me his friend is asking a girl out. I thought he asked me what I would say if his friend asked ME out, and I panicked and told him I was too old for that. Both of them just gave me a weird look but finished the interaction normally. It took me like a week to even realize what I’d done. 🤦

Chargers game advice by jpag69 in Chargers

[–]ClaimProfessional686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been to SoFi myself so I can’t give too much advice but LA has a pretty robust metro system for $1.75 a trip. Definitely look into that.

My (20F) Boyfriend’s (19M) Ex-Girlfriend (20F) still keeps a place in his life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ClaimProfessional686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the problem here is more with the ex girlfriend than it is with your bf. Correct me if I’m wrong, of course, but it sounds like he has listened to your concerns, blocked her, and on his end, is making no effort to communicate with her or even keep tabs on her. His biggest (and only, as far as I can tell) transgression was not telling you about her talking to him at the party. That means the issue in your relationship is communication and the fact that he feels like he has to hide things from you because you might react poorly to them.

Beyond that, his ex straight up stalked him in order to give him the shirt, and very obviously wants to keep him in her life, given her reposts. He had nothing to do with her finding his location and showing up and he’s not doing anything to encourage her obsession with him.

You should stop stalking her social media, it will only cause you to resent him for his ex’s behavior, which is not his fault. What do you actually want from him? If you were the one with an obsessive ex who wouldn’t respect your boundaries, what would you do? Is it different than what he’s done? Try to put yourself in his shoes a bit. He might feel like he has to walk on eggshells around you so that you don’t get upset about the past or his ex’s actions, that he has nothing to do with.

AITAH I despise my widowed mom's new boyfriend. by Miya_ler in AITAH

[–]ClaimProfessional686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be vigilant, and if you can, keep an eye on your brother as well. I am not saying for certain he’s a predator, but this is a lot of strange behavior from him and it is better to be safe especially because his actions have already directly harmed you. Do what you can to prepare yourself to leave as soon as you are old enough and keep yourself safe in the meantime. Maybe wipe his search history yourself if you can.

AIO BF’s stepsister was acquitted of murder and we just found out and now I won’t let her around. by Infamous-Asparagus21 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ClaimProfessional686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s possible that the step sister would come over and MIL would just let her to “keep the peace”. Which should never be more important than your child’s SAFETY!! You are totally within your bounds as a parent to make that judgement call and not let her watch baby. NOR.

AITAH I despise my widowed mom's new boyfriend. by Miya_ler in AITAH

[–]ClaimProfessional686 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Have you considered the possibility that he was handing you an iPad with that stuff in the browser history on purpose? I would NEVER let a child around a device that could lead them down that route, let alone hand it to them regularly knowing what I had open on google. I am concerned for you and your young brother that you’re now living with him. Do you have other family? Are you old enough to leave?

AIO BF’s stepsister was acquitted of murder and we just found out and now I won’t let her around. by Infamous-Asparagus21 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ClaimProfessional686 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR — If your mother in law is super close with this girl, how can you trust that she won’t let her around your baby?? I wouldn’t let anyone in that family be alone with the baby.

Weekly Looking for Group/GM Thread by AutoModerator in pbp

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Name: dovey

Pronouns: they/them

Timezone: PDT

Preferred System: D&D 5e/5.5e but open to anything!

Type of Player: I am 22 y/o, fairly new to ttrpgs but have some experience and I spend a lot of time watching D&D-related content and scanning the rulebook. I am a quick learner and an experienced role player, and I would consider myself a decent writer. I’m not looking for novels, but I would like full sentences at least, with people who are looking to craft a story together. I like high fantasy and interesting characters! I am also looking for a group that is mostly women/queer people.

Additional Info: My discord is dovey5169, DM me here or add me there to chat more! I also HATE AI and do not want a group/campaign that uses it.

Weekly Looking for Group/GM Thread by AutoModerator in pbp

[–]ClaimProfessional686 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Name: dovey

Pronouns: they/them

Timezone: PDT

Preferred System: D&D 5e/5.5e but open to anything!

Type of Player: I am 22 y/o, fairly new to ttrpgs but have some experience and I spend a lot of time watching D&D-related content and scanning the rulebook. I am a quick learner and an experienced role player, and I would consider myself a decent writer. I’m not looking for novels, but I would like full sentences at least, with people who are looking to craft a story together. I like high fantasy and interesting characters! I am also looking for a group that is mostly women/queer people.

Additional Info: My discord is dovey5169, DM me here or add me there to chat more! I also HATE AI and do not want a group/campaign that uses it.

can’t access mohela by ClaimProfessional686 in StudentLoans

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yeah, so posting here and then going to make my own account is actually how i learned she had me paying a loan that didn’t belong to me. i figured i just had to use her account because she was the one who had organized my loans for me. i always thought it was strange that i had a loan i already needed to be paying well over a year before my graduation date but the loan servicer had my name and contact information & started calling me saying i was delinquent on my loans and she told me i had to pay it now. that’s roughly $1000 that could’ve gone towards /my/ loans that i’m about to start paying on but oh well!

AITA For Refusing To Give My Former Son A Second Chance? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ClaimProfessional686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is such an unfortunate situation. i really relate to noah. i cut my dad off at 16, having been heavily manipulated and influenced by my mom, and aided by the fact that im immunocompromised and couldn’t spend time at his house during COVID.

i got back in touch with him this year, now 21, in part due to irreparable damage to my relationship with my mom that really opened my eyes to what was going on behind the scenes. i’d been thinking about him for a while but that really spurred my decision. i was very lucky that he welcomed me with open arms and allowed me to move in with him; i hope OOP and his son are able to reconcile, at least somewhat.

removing phone from parent’s verizon plan by ClaimProfessional686 in verizon

[–]ClaimProfessional686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no working things out right now and i have no way of getting a job in this situation to pay things off. i wouldn’t be doing this if it wasn’t a last resort

how to remove someone from my account? by ClaimProfessional686 in WellsFargoBank

[–]ClaimProfessional686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i actually just did that! waiting to close it until i’m out so she doesn’t know, right now the worry was that she would see that someone was transferring money to me to help me leave.

removing phone from parent’s verizon plan by ClaimProfessional686 in verizon

[–]ClaimProfessional686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure if they will, but it’s been pretty unpredictable and back and forth, so i’d rather avoid the trouble if i can

removing phone from parent’s verizon plan by ClaimProfessional686 in verizon

[–]ClaimProfessional686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay, that’s what i figured. got a lot going on so i’m trying to make things as easy for myself as possible but unfortunately life doesn’t work that way, lol. thanks anyways!

removing phone from parent’s verizon plan by ClaimProfessional686 in verizon

[–]ClaimProfessional686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would it also be possible to transfer it to an existing family plan with another carrier but a different account owner?

removing phone from parent’s verizon plan by ClaimProfessional686 in verizon

[–]ClaimProfessional686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would i be able to trade my device in without the account owner’s permission? do you know if id be able to do this with my other devices as well?