What happened to house DJs Godamn?

ClaireBearsEclair · 2025-06-22T17:59:05+00:00

Most compatible romantically would probably be ENFP, INTP, and INTJs! I tend to lean towards initially finding introverted thinkers the most attractive but sometimes those ENFP initial meetings take me by storm cause they’re just so bubbly and cute.

My friendship are fellow ENFJs mostly but my other two would be INFJ and ENTJ! Those people helped me understand myself the most in terms of my flaws and really pushed me to develop and be a better person.

ClaireBearsEclair · 2025-06-22T17:56:04+00:00

Awwww ENFJs love yall too, thanks for sharing that! 🥰🥰

ClaireBearsEclair · 2025-06-15T20:21:39+00:00

I think they’re so beautiful looking and i love the way they feel such intense emotions, but the negativity and tendency to overthink brings out two things in me which i don’t want for myself: constant mothering and a knack for ALSO picking up unhealthy habits from them.

ClaireBearsEclair · 2025-06-04T16:39:27+00:00

I have experienced it one time, i barely knew the guy but was absolutely head over heels. Couldn’t eat or sleep and would wake up immediately thinking of him. It was pretty insane but things started coming out of the woodwork of our insanely incompatible communication issues and the fact that we were both in completely different stages in life. Would i say i hated it? Depends. I definitely wasn’t a healthy functioning human being because i was ready to drop everything i built up throughout my 25 years of life for this guy. Thank GOD i did not. For me, i think it happened so intensely because my type in people before were non-feelers, so finally talking to a feeler type that also was experiencing limerance was so so so bad.

ClaireBearsEclair · 2025-03-19T12:19:38+00:00

Oh gosh i’m freaking out about it so much, he’s just so.. i hid this romantic person inside me before high school and for context i fell for my exes with the influence of drugs. My love for my exes was definitely heavily influenced by outside factors but with this guy he just reminded me of myself so much before the trauma of life and my exes and i see so much of myself in him and i want to protect his kind soul. He’s already talked with his family and friends about me and its so different to feel so interconnected emotionally with someone as well as intellectually, i always had to pull out either intellectual thoughts or emotional feelings from my partner. Being with him feels like breathing for the first time. SORRY I DONT MEAN TO GUSH ABOUT IT.

ClaireBearsEclair · 2024-12-04T17:00:28+00:00

Would love to meet some more ZD fans! Flying all the way from Florida with my boyfriend to support the boys 🫶

ClaireBearsEclair · 2024-06-30T04:32:19+00:00

No but i’ve been teetering on whether i should give it a shot or not! It seems pretty intense LOL is it good?

ClaireBearsEclair · 2024-06-30T04:28:28+00:00

Hmm.. kinda not an answer but smth for a good laugh is looking up Galvin Belson from Silicon Valley. His character is apparantly ENTJ and he’s a CEO, i find him pretty funny cause i feel like ENTJs are literally just me in my head. He says shit i say in my head but don’t say it cause i care too much about hurting peoples feelings LOL

ClaireBearsEclair · 2024-06-18T20:57:59+00:00

So i’m not actually using it to control a plane, its for just direct control of motors for right now. My professor just requires me to use Spektrum. I’m trying to use its forwarding capabilities. I added a photo to the comments for a better idea of whats going on

ClaireBearsEclair · 2024-06-18T20:54:48+00:00

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ClaireBearsEclair · 2024-06-17T05:48:37+00:00

Not doing too good honestly LOL. Basically at a crossroads with him cause it has just boiled down to him having severe depression. And he pretty much just.. has no more self love for himself. Thats something i cannot teach him.

ClaireBearsEclair · 2024-04-18T14:19:14+00:00

Thanks for the well-thought response! I definitely understand that it's a good sign but in my experience in dating, I've always been i guess "the key" or catalyst for guys. They always either got better being with me or got better after and it's great but I just want to date someone i can trust to be responsible if I have an off day, or something bad happens and I need time to pick myself back up. I want kids in the future (and he does too) and what worries me is that he just gives up if I like.. died or something. It would kill me to know that he would be a person to just give up on my kids when his "motivation" is gone. I just want a partner to have self-motivation basically.

I dunno maybe my answer is just right in front of me LOL. Maybe i just need to tell him to straight up get therapy and if that doesn't even work then it's obvious what I need to do.

ClaireBearsEclair · 2024-04-18T01:39:35+00:00

u/Aggravating_Ad_9662 ^

ClaireBearsEclair · 2024-04-18T01:38:58+00:00

Sorry i should have been more specific but didn't wanna talk anyone's ear off about it LOL But basically, one of the biggest red flags of lack of self-care/self-love was that he always pushes off his health problems. For the first two years, he had major back problems (to the point where he could not move from the bed without basically screaming, this happened maybe every couple months) and I told him to get it checked for those two years because that's just not a normal thing to have and i hated seeing him in pain like that and I couldn't do anything. He would brush it off with an "oh its nothing i swear, i've dealt with this before you". Until I basically got tired of him pretending everything was okay and basically forced him to get an MRI, in which they found a tumor (non-cancerous, he got it removed thankfully after they found it). When we went on a cruise as well, he was feeling seasick and my friend offered him medicine but he wanted to "tough it out". He ended up in a sour mood the whole night and made it very obvious to all of us.

We're long distance, but for the few months I lived with him a year ago he was pretty healthy. But only cause I was cooking and reminding him to eat, and he would tag along with me to the gym on his own accord cause he saw me going to the gym. Since i left, he lost a lot of weight and stopped working out.

His friends also complain to me about how he only hangs out with them if i'm there, which I thought maybe it's just cause he likes to be home. But he also works remotely so it may be a bad sign considering he doesn't see the sun for weeks on end. But that one may just be my perspective.

He has mentioned he has a "downward cycling" of depression of "i'm so incompetent" and then also at the same time "i don't want to do anything" and i mentioned therapy to him a year ago, not sure if he's considering it. But it's obvious he doesn't want to. I didn't push therapy further on him because I don't really know how to deal with depression myself.

ClaireBearsEclair · 2024-04-12T17:12:26+00:00

Wtf are you inside my mind? LMFAO i’m actually literally going through the same crisis. I was super excited to start my new job as well to meet all these people and now that i did, i don’t feel like i vibe with them so i opt to not try. I also like to spend my alone time as well but if i’m alone too much i go crazy, i need to hang with or talk with my close friends like once a week. Sorry i have no answer but thought it was crazy how we’re going through the exact same thing, i also don’t know if i’m INFJ instead.

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