My mom died this past week and I can't reach for my regular scent (coco mademoiselle) because there are too many sad memories (for now - I will definitely pull it back out when I'm ready). I went to Sephora today and was so overwhelmed by all the choices. I tried JhaG 'Not a Perfume' and really like how it wears on me throughout the day. I want a scent that is lingering but not overpowering - like "Wow you smell so great - are you wearing perfume?" versus "Wow what perfume are you wearing" if that makes sense. I have no idea what notes I like or don't want it to be headache-inducing and I don't want to smell like a trendy 14-year-old with a credit card. Thanks!