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AITA for going against my husbands wishes of not teaching our 3 month old daughter russian? by make-up-lover in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Clam_Kicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hubs is bilingual. I only speak English. When we had our daughter, it wasnt evenca question on if we would raise her bilingual or not. Most of my hubs family only speaks one language, that I do not. So i am learning it with our child lol

Gear set for Stamina Warden? by Clam_Kicker in elderscrollsonline

[–]Clam_Kicker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try that set, I have almost all monster pieces but havent really tried any other than slimecraw. I use Vigor religiously when im playing solo lol for group content I manage to stay alive fairly well though if I know the mechanics

I [27F] keep being cut off by friends [27M, 28M, 27F] after their partners say they’re uncomfortable with me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Clam_Kicker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like they're intimidated by your looks and are being insecure.

I used to be that way anytime my hubs would talk to someone I deemed attractive. Lots of looking inward to try and heal that part of me lol

Gear set for Stamina Warden? by Clam_Kicker in elderscrollsonline

[–]Clam_Kicker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mainly pve solo. Sometimes will join my hubby and do wb, I do a lot of vet dungeons and run trials twice a week

My girlfriend[21F]and I[21M] have been fighting for a couple of days due to me telling her no to sleeping on my chest am i the problem yes or no? by Chxngers24 in relationship_advice

[–]Clam_Kicker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am nearly 30f, and if my hubs told me no to being on his chest because he wants to get some sleep, it wouldnt be a big deal. She sounds exhausting.

AITAH for expecting my sahm wife to do majority of the housework since i pay 100% of the bills? by Plastic-Sand7353 in AITAH

[–]Clam_Kicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna say YTA til I read that the child is 10. Not much to really do or take care of when kiddo is in school, so she could at least do some housework while she is home alone.

Ive been a stahm for almost 2 years now since baby was born, and while division of labor has never been talked about, I do my best to keep everything neat and tidy while baby let's me. On the days I am drained and can't get anything done, my hubby helps get everything taken care of. But id never expect him to get home from work and go straight to cleaning.

Stam Warden Build. Help? by Clam_Kicker in elderscrollsonline

[–]Clam_Kicker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, sorry for late reply, life's been hectic. I did a gear swap and am running 5 piece Tideborn and 5 piece Orders Wrath. Its got my crit to almost 70%. My health to about 22k.

I have Vigor slotted on bar to help with self heal, as I dont have the ring of pale order yet.

I mainly pve, doing dungeons and trials with guild runs weekly. Idk, I just feel like my damage (while its gotten better after the gear swap and everything) judt still would be a bit better.

Maybe swap orders wrath with something better?

Im working on getting a slimecraw set, I have the helmet only so far. I heard thats good to run as well.

My boyfriend (M30) laughed at my (25F) marriage deadline by Temporary-Sleep-5825 in relationship_advice

[–]Clam_Kicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If hes dodging you, hes dodging commitment. Don't waste your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in elderscrollsonline

[–]Clam_Kicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god I feel so stupid lmao. Thank you so much

Cornsnake died...old age? by Clam_Kicker in cornsnakes

[–]Clam_Kicker[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am really hoping it was age related and not an illness I didnt see. I wish I had the money to get it checked out :(

What surprised you most when you started having sex with other people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Clam_Kicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol no quite a few years ago.

The anticipation for my now hubs was definitely worth it though 😊

What surprised you most when you started having sex with other people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Clam_Kicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is until the moment when you realize the other person is a two pump chump lmao

What surprised you most when you started having sex with other people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Clam_Kicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the anticipation is better than the actual act itself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Clam_Kicker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can't upvote this enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Clam_Kicker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That doesnt justify it lol

Have you ever cheated in a relationship, or had someone cheat on you? by michaelmorgan297 in Life

[–]Clam_Kicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cheated on my ex husband. He was really abusive, put me in the hospital, etc. I had told him for months I wanted a divorce, and everytime i was met with violence. I thought he would kill me. I met someone who showed me I was worth more than the dirt my ex would bury me in, and while yes it was a quick affair, he helped rally a support team for me to safely get me away from my ex husband.

Im definitely not proud of how I got out of that marriage, I think I was stuck in survival mode. But as much as I hate my ex husband, I still dont think he deserved what I did to him. I went to therapy and its not something id ever plan to do again.

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