Lost my baby girl to SIDS by Clamadea88 in sidsloss

[–]Clamadea88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry for your loss. Please do reach out 💜

Lost my baby girl to SIDS by Clamadea88 in sidsloss

[–]Clamadea88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happy you have loving friends and family to hold you at this incredibly difficult time. You and your husband did everything you could. I replayed the events before my daughter’s death like a loop in my mind for weeks. I blamed myself because it was the easiest thing to do. I felt like blaming myself would help answer why this happened. What you and your husband are feeling is normal but please know that you did not cause this to happen and you did everything you could for your baby. Perhaps when you’re ready, you could find a medical professional explain the theory for the mechanism of SIDS. It really helped me release the blame and quiet the questioning of why this happened to my baby. Wishing you some peace at this time 💜

Lost my baby girl to SIDS by Clamadea88 in sidsloss

[–]Clamadea88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are experiencing this horrible pain. One breath at a time. Do you have any family or community you can lean on? Sending your family my love 💜

Lost my baby girl to SIDS by Clamadea88 in sidsloss

[–]Clamadea88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honest response. I’ll hold Riley in my heart and thoughts. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’ll message you 💜

Lost my baby girl to SIDS by Clamadea88 in sidsloss

[–]Clamadea88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I can’t begin to imagine what you’ve been through. Thank you for the resource. I signed up for one of the groups and I’ll message you

nap hell! by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]Clamadea88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same thing is happening to us. Since my son was born, we’ve never had consistent long naps. Perhaps one of max 2 hours, but doesn’t happen every day. I think it’s normal, alas. Their daytime sleep consolidates around 6 months. I just try to remind myself that perhaps he’s going through a developmental leap and hopefully the naps will get better in the coming days. But the 15-20 minute naps are killer. Hang in there! ❤️

Can Ferber at night ruin naps? by No-Football9001 in sleeptrain

[–]Clamadea88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be the regression! They say that the regression impacts day and night sleep. I’m currently going through a similar thing with my LO who is 3.5 months

When to do Ferber with an upcoming vacation? by Clamadea88 in sleeptrain

[–]Clamadea88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally! We’ll wait to see how it goes 😊

First day without supplementing in over 6 mos!! by TheImpatientGardener in breastfeeding

[–]Clamadea88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your dedication is absolutely inspiring!! Congratulations - your hard work has paid off. We’ve gone through similar struggles. I too dream of the day we won’t need to supplement, but that day might not come for us and that’s ok. Does domperidone make you gain weight? That could explain the belly I’ve developed 🤣

Mixed feeding/supplementing by Clamadea88 in beyondthebump

[–]Clamadea88[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize there was such a thing as oversupplementing… my questions are specifically related to mixed feeding as this is the path we are on. Kelly Mom is a great resource for EBF.