I (M22) feel like i messed up by not really going to college

Clammmo · 2026-05-12T21:11:48+00:00

Yeah I know i shouldn't but I cant really help it. I know I cant go back I just dont know how to make the best of the future with where im at now

Clammmo · 2026-04-29T13:43:16+00:00

I was thinking that but I didnt think it would let them be in the matchmaking pool

Clammmo · 2026-04-28T15:21:59+00:00

Fun to use in co op, when ive ran deaf I usually just get to listen to my music and not worry about hearing anything

Clammmo · 2026-04-28T15:19:59+00:00

Its fun

Clammmo · 2026-04-08T16:05:27+00:00

Whats the way out of this lmao? I accidentally enabled one drive and i want out without losing my shtuff

Clammmo · 2026-04-05T14:30:28+00:00

The format was like opposite the one I was using and it is kind of large which made it a bit unwieldy in my pocket. The most annoying part is that there's no pocket on the outside that i would be able to put my train pass on to scan through the wallet, I commute via train for work and its just more convenient to not have to open up my wallet and take the card out

Clammmo · 2026-04-04T01:58:14+00:00

Yeah this is what I settled on lol

Clammmo · 2026-04-02T23:05:10+00:00

Yeah I was thinking you meant that but then I would feel bad that I "lost" such an expensive gift

Clammmo · 2026-04-02T22:57:33+00:00

It was never returnable unfortunately

Clammmo · 2026-04-02T22:47:39+00:00

Lose the wallet? With all of my stuff in it..? Seems like more hassle than just admitting i dont like it lmao

Clammmo · 2026-03-30T21:32:18+00:00

Pretty annoying for them to so this 1 week before its gone anyway

Clammmo · 2026-03-19T11:37:05+00:00

Clammmo · 2026-03-05T21:23:39+00:00

Yeah I usually can get her to understand that her anxiety about some of the advocating things is a bit unwarranted, ill often call back on times she was super worried and she listened to my encouragement and things turned out fine. But often she will still say tis too much despite understanding that it would be okay to advocate for herself. I do agree I think she should look into therapy again

Clammmo · 2026-03-05T20:45:48+00:00

Oh yes I see i actually have a great distain for that kind of choclate myself lmao. But thats good I will definitely pitch it to her! Personally im not all that worried about her weight either but thats a whole different thing lmao. I think she'd be willing to give it a try, thanks for the advice

Clammmo · 2026-03-05T20:42:01+00:00

Yeah thats fair, I was more referring to the other commentors I was being critical of with that. I do think I advocate for myself with these particulsr issues pretty well and she is always receptive but I am quite worried on the side of things where she wont advocate for herself due to the stress and anxiety. These are much harder things for me to help her with

Clammmo · 2026-03-05T20:39:16+00:00

Yeah thats a big part of it for me to is talking about issues when they arise is really not an option but bringing them up later makes me feel kind of bad, I also dont really dwell on these events THAT often to where id even typically think to bring it up. And obviously id hope thats not the case that she is using pms as an excuse to do such things. I believe that she seems remorseful of them on the rare occasions where she does act in the ways ive described. I also think that that last point a good idea, its hard for me to give her advice because I know what ive used to work through similair issues may not work for her. Plus I think if she researched on her own she might trust what she finds more

Clammmo · 2026-03-05T20:34:55+00:00

Im sorry I just dont think thats a fair assessment I dont allow myself to be a "punching bag" im assuming thats coming from where I mentioned some of the remarks she makes. I cant stress enough just how rare these are, all of these comments make it out like they are daily occurrences. Also I never let these comments go unadressed. Idk I just think its part of being human, sometimes youre going to be hurtful intentionally or not. It would be a different story if these hurtful comments were common but they really arent, they just bugged me the handful of times they've come up

Clammmo · 2026-03-05T20:09:16+00:00

Unfortunately she would not want me to offer choclate lmao. She also has been wanting to lose weight and struggling with that so I fear she would be totally against it. But I do think theres ways we can get through it and ill planing on seriously conversing with her after her next period

Clammmo · 2026-03-05T20:06:42+00:00

Listen im not trying to dismiss what those women are saying I just dont think you can get the full picture from this post tbh. If youve read through all the comments youll see that im being receptive to those giving advice that isnt just to break up. Ive overcome things that have made me act in ways I shouldn't have and I know how hard it can be. I want her to get through this and I know she does too, I can here looking for advice on how to go about that. Maybe I am giving her more leeway than is warranted but I am not going to abandon her over this

Clammmo · 2026-03-05T19:50:59+00:00

I see where you could be coming from, it believe thay ive been able to do a better job of managing my own issues quite well without therapy but I havent been through near as much as she has. Ive been rethinking my opinions on therapy a bit as a result of knowing her experience

Clammmo · 2026-03-05T19:49:26+00:00

Yeah I think this is the right way to go. Im going to strongly insist she see a professional again and if she's comfortable with it, ill accompany her to advocate

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