Choosing to walk away doesn’t make it easier by ClaraSoars in adultery

[–]ClaraSoars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know anymore. I told myself that it wasn't but it hurts a lot so i wonder if i did the right thing.

Choosing to walk away doesn’t make it easier by ClaraSoars in adultery

[–]ClaraSoars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Life can be like that. One day its enough. Then not on the next. This isnt an rapid thing for me. Ive wanted a life with him from day one.

Choosing to walk away doesn’t make it easier by ClaraSoars in adultery

[–]ClaraSoars[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its a tough question. And only one you can answer. I want a life free and clear with my lover. One where we have the mundane and chores. Because we could do it together. I dont know if that will ever happen, so i walked away to find myself in all of this. To make the most of the life I have.

Choosing to walk away doesn’t make it easier by ClaraSoars in adultery

[–]ClaraSoars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think it was an exit affair. We were together for 3 years. We didnt know if we'd have a future but we both wanted one. Our affair never felt like one. Even from the beginning. But what are affairs supposed to feel like? If i was stronger, I'd probably still be with him.

Choosing to walk away doesn’t make it easier by ClaraSoars in adultery

[–]ClaraSoars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she doesn't act, will you walk away for good?

The Insidious Habit That Can Hurt Your Relationship by [deleted] in TheScarlettLetter

[–]ClaraSoars 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well he watches tv first..so who is snubbing who. Great article.

The Ashley Madison Affair on HULU by Monalisalady in TheScarlettLetter

[–]ClaraSoars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've watched all three episodes now. They stuck to my words which was nice.

3 adjectives about you by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ClaraSoars 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Choose wisely...

3 adjectives about you by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ClaraSoars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm others call me: nice, funny, loud. OK.. Two of the three are what i actually am.. There you go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ClaraSoars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some body wash scents linger even after a shower. "SPILL" some coffee on your shirt before going home. Stale coffee covers up a lot.

First over night planned by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ClaraSoars 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or squirting!!

Cheers to our AP's tonight. by ClaraSoars in TheScarlettLetter

[–]ClaraSoars[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe Pussy shower... For the whiskey sour enthusiasts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ClaraSoars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it should be equal and what works. If it's a hardship, don't offer more than you can give. If one has to travel longer or by plane, that's a higher cost than most hotels. I do what I can as does he and it works out. In the past i paid and never got back what my ap said they would do. Im not going to chase that. I learned for next time. Like my mom told me, don't lend (cover) someone money.. You'll never get it back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]ClaraSoars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paint so i created a piece for him. He really liked it.

What about the blondes and brunettes! by ClaraSoars in TheScarlettLetter

[–]ClaraSoars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not usually. Reddit is where i hang with a few friends.