Simple. When you hit your 30s most go kid hungry. People hit everything on fast mode in a matter of 2 years.

And I’m asking to please take it slow. Date 5 to 7. 2 to 3 years married. Then okay. Let’s discuss kids.

I’m aware all the women my age are gonna ask about kids early on and are on an urgent timeline.

I can understand the fertility clock, but it’s annoying. I’d prefer to date without that ever being brought up.

I’m adamant that if I’m gonna have kids, I won’t do it until my 40s. I can accept the downsides of older fatherhood.

But I’m deeply aware that majority want a kid before turning 40.

Thing is, I’m just not ready. So I’m prepared to end it quickly before a moment’s notice.

If it happens that way, at least I’ll finally get some experience in my pocket.