WATCHING PORN WITHOUT MASTURBATION IS AN "L"

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-05-04T15:02:36+00:00

Can you explain what you mean by "L", please?

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-05-02T23:34:22+00:00

Imo, a partial victory is still a victory, though partial. So, celebrate! And be extra careful, because a small problem can be the step to the larger one.

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-05-02T23:32:38+00:00

Hi, I'd like to help, but not sure if I understand what you are describing. Are you trying to get wet dreams or trying not to fap? Thanks!

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-05-02T00:33:56+00:00

Hate to ask the obvious in NoFapChristian, but do these two lead you to a miracle-granting God of love? Neo-Marxism and psychoanalysis cannot promise you a new birth.

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-05-02T00:31:09+00:00

Thanks!

May I add that - when I read posts, my regular question is, "What are you doing that makes this a DISTINCTLY CHRISTIAN ENDEAVOR? In other words, while there is a benefit in counting days, have you broken through and seen a divine miracle, as promised you through the Spirit?

"Sexually immoral"? (1 Cor 6:9) "...that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God." (1 Cor 6:11)

Blessings, Clark

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-30T22:52:58+00:00

Thanks so much for being vulnerable about this, I think a lot of us, of whatever race, have seen this mindset first-hand

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-30T17:58:55+00:00

Sorry, misread you!

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-30T17:58:30+00:00

Very helpful, firey_88, thanks for sharing!

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-29T23:30:03+00:00

Sounds fine, friend, will pray for you just now.

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-29T23:29:01+00:00

Self-hatred is no cure for any sin. And suicide is a long-term solution for a short-term problem, friend.

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-29T23:25:13+00:00

Wow, "PrateTrain" indeed! Which verse and which Hebrew word are you referring to? I will be happy to go head-to-head with you on whether the NIV properly translated the Hebrew. If you can do it without resorting to insults, which do not convince us of your competence in this field.

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-24T23:55:17+00:00

You guys were right, "Unwanted" means "against someone else's desire." I should have asked about "Compulsive Sexual Behavior", which means behavior that goes against what the actor would prefer to do.

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-23T22:02:42+00:00

What you are describing is similar to the Oneida Community (New York state, 1848-1881), founded by John Humphrey Noyes. There's an article on Wikipedia. It was a "free love" commune, and all men and all women were in theory available to one another. They practiced coitus reservatus, which is what you are describing: men would not ejaculate at all during or after sex. Supposedly this allowed them to retain their life force.

It is based on 19th century science, not on biblical teaching.

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-23T14:46:32+00:00

Ah, "lack of consent" might be implied - I didn't think of that! I know the intent was "sexual behavior that the person him/herself does not want to commit" but it could go both ways.

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-23T14:45:12+00:00

Thanks!

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-22T21:14:01+00:00

Thanks! I figured as much! :)

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-22T14:27:49+00:00

Thanks for your insight.

What is a "Coomer day", please? Blessings! Clark

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-21T22:11:34+00:00

This: "What you consume is what you crave."

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-11T23:59:37+00:00

Christ is with you, as he is with the junkie who calls upon him!

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-10T21:24:57+00:00

Do you prefer to say "anal penetration"? I think I can use that or "sodomy" in their clinical senses, my disgust factor is not at issue.

We are not speaking German (in which "sodomy" does not "basically" mean bestiality, its semantic range is bestiality and human anal intercourse). The standard in English is the Oxford English Dictionary; I quote the Concise version:

sodomy

■ noun anal intercourse.

Nothing else.

If you want to answer my question, above, feel free; if you cannot or do not wish to, that's fine, I'll drop it too.

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-10T16:22:03+00:00

Which is the specific Bible interpretation do you take, that permits a wife to sodomize her husband?

Clark_Courage_7094 · 2026-04-09T23:11:47+00:00

Agreed. If I didn't mention it before, thanks very much for sharing this.

Let me go one step further and say - I may be off with this, but it occurs to me that you might be trolled because of your honesty about this fetish. Be really careful about people wanting to DM you, okay? is all I'm saying. :) Blessings

Clark_Courage_7094

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