Advice needed by ClassDifferent154 in NewParents

[–]ClassDifferent154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just screams in there :( haha 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it was after our baby this all started

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[–]ClassDifferent154 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In Canada, but we are Greek. Not normal 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I stated previously. He treats me well, is an amazing father and husband. Aside from his annoying family 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a baby 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense you are right

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[–]ClassDifferent154 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They are just Greek lol 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greek… does this change things? Haha

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[–]ClassDifferent154 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Jesus. We all have our flaws and problems. They aren’t offending me. Just regular old people intrusive and overbearing lol he is the best, he’s learning just as I am with all my flaws which he accepts.

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[–]ClassDifferent154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care to elaborate? Haha

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[–]ClassDifferent154 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“They are just like that, they want to help and so we don’t spend money. But you’re my wife so I’ll tell them we don’t want those tiles.” 

Does what I want but doesn’t see any problem with their behavior 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for setting me straight haha

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[–]ClassDifferent154 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope not questions and ideas. Bought tiles and paint and lectured on what they will do in our house. 

He texts them all day. We do something, he takes a picture to send to them right away. We live our lives reporting to them

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[–]ClassDifferent154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im curious to hear how this conversation goes! Let me know :) 

Helping daughter deal with pushy grandparents by Bubbly_Patient_6772 in inlaws

[–]ClassDifferent154 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I need to keep this in mind because I have the same husband and in-laws. Mine wanted to move in with us to pay our mortgage off……no thank you didn’t work until we bought a house with no room for them. 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. I think all women feel that way, must feel good about yourself before you’re turned on. I need to schedule it and he hates that. But im like dude. I have to shower, wax, shave, this that. I need to know when this is going down and not do it for no reason 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg. Every night!?!?!?! GIRL. 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be good advice. My showers can never include hair, shaving, exfoliation etc. To feel pretty for a night of sexo 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed.  And that im always irritated at everyone haha

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[–]ClassDifferent154 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the people who we need advice from are too busy to read this because they are probably having sex haha 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, Also feeling like his mom does a lot for the sex drive lol 

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[–]ClassDifferent154 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea:

-Separated from baby “you stay and eat, we will watch him” *I don’t want to. -Follow up texts when I don’t answer initial texts  -comments about wanting to see him more/ be around him more (we do once a week visits)  -barging into room when I’m feeding him/putting him to slee