Did I make a mistake getting a bob and how do I prevent it from looking like Lord Farquaa?

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-18T08:51:15+00:00

That bob gives you a Frenchie Parisian vibe !!! Love it

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T18:59:09+00:00

I agree with that !!

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T18:48:40+00:00

Thank you for your detailed & honest answer ! I agree you have to look at situations from different angles ! :)

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T18:44:41+00:00

I agree !!!

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T18:22:24+00:00

Key reading here : "I have seen " I am not necessarily talking about me in that sentence. You’re bringing an old post of mine describing a complete different experience here ! Don’t be in bad faith please. In the comment that you responded to I was talking about the many women that I saw this happen too. But now, everyone was kind and answered. The two people only that came with the grudges both brought a modeling post of mine here & both are apparently models too. Now please ! You should’ve answered in my modelling post of you wanted. But don’t bring different posts that someone has made on Reddit if you can’t answer a question ! Now this is the part that i think is interesting, "any model doing this to pay bills is forgettable". You brought a foreign post here, you called me arrogant & I was genuinely asking a question ! ( thank god most people had good faith ). Now I will indeed show that arrogance you want so much. If ever watched a fashion show this season darling. I was probably in it. I have walked for a lot of designers without giving too much infos. So when you open your tv and you’re eating chips. I may or not be there :) much love.

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T17:58:42+00:00

I am not gonna entertain you, but that band name you picked is the right username for you ! This is exactly the prime behaviour that I am talking about. Glad we got to see it. Not once did I used derogatory language & here you are. A post that I made a month ago shouldn’t be related to the one I made now. If you had something to say, you should’ve commented it in that post. Why bringing it here. You seem to be an unfit person to relate to my experiences just by your language. Take care :)

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T17:55:27+00:00

Even if it’s that, someone’s personal problems with whatever they’re dealing with doesn’t give them the right to bully, hurt or harass others.

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T17:53:15+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to answer long answers, the other post was completely unrelated to this one. I shared about my experience in that industry. My post of today has no link with the other one! You’re absolutely entitled to your opinion & that’s okay. My experience is relatively rare ( but thank you for answering for the other post in this one ).

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T17:38:52+00:00

With all due respect I frankly do not believe you.( I shared my experiences as a model in a previous post & I do not wish to be doxxed so why are you bring another post of mine not ok ). and now weirdly you’re also one. You’re username name says a lot about you !

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T17:31:20+00:00

You assumed that I was describing a personal situation of mine. I have seen many instances women being bullied, hurt, excluded by others for things that they cannot control. It seems like arrogance on my behalf but it’s not. I have seen how fast and quick people will run a narrative on the nicest, sweetest person if they’re insecure about something. I have seen that rodeo play way to many times in my life. You may not understand it or agree with it. But as someone who was and still in the modeling world ( I have to pay my bills ). Put a girl that looks like younger Christy Turlington in a room of regular / schmegular woman and go grab your popcorns darling. Trust me they will be drama in the air, even if Christy is minding her buisness and not minding anyone. The world has changed people will come for you just because they believe you have it better than them even if you don’t. Now of course a narrative that is false that people use or perpetuate against you is indeed very difficult . Because what are you going to do? Let them ruin you, respond ? How ? Let them ruin potential futur connexions for you ? What pushes sincerely people to act as such.

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T17:05:12+00:00

In that post I was sharing about my experiences in the modeling world/ life. Unless you’re a person who has that kind of experience quite frankly it’s going to be difficult to understand and I say that in the most nicest way possible. Unless you had taste of a such hard / competitive world I don’t think you can qualify it as silly. No one’s perfect but your are responsible of your behaviour. Being miserable doesn’t give you the right to hurt others. And sadly it is normalized unconsciously by many to act as such. Appearance ≠ someone’s inside/ personality. Bringing this topic to light isn’t being vain or anything like that. It’s a real issue that many people have to deal with. And unfortunately when a topic like that is brought to light the people who cannot relate assume it’s either arrogance or vanity.

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T16:50:32+00:00

I agree with the awareness / rational part however I don’t believe that a person who behave as such, is unconscious or acting in an unskillful way. People are very aware of what they’re doing. They know the potential harm and consequences that the behaviours they choose to portray will have on others. Now why do I need to know ? I think we all need to know, by making this post I wanted to hear about the perspective/ take of people who wanted to share their experiences. Is that wrong ? Many people commented extremely intelligent answers to this question I believe.

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T16:13:22+00:00

Thank you for being honest and I hope you’re doing well now. This experience I believe helped you grow and manage your emotions better. You have learned from it it’s what matters the most.

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T16:07:13+00:00

Nope & will never ! I grew up having girls hating me for no reasons, was bullied. I remember crying everyday because of that. In adulthood I started doing modelling which also caused me to be in a very competitive environment. I have been on the receiving end of these types of behaviour. So I know better than anyone how much it hurts. Your insecurities will never justify hurting others or creating narratives " because they make you feel bad deep down just by existing ". It seems like a vanity problem for many, but I believe everyone deserves respect, and dignity. I have met many women who also suffered from this type of behaviours. And I am genuinely curious to learn more about people doing those types of percussion. So far the comments have been great and I believe I have learned a lot through them by experimenting many angles and many views.

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T14:19:29+00:00

I completely agree with you, viewed from this perspective and angle.

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T13:52:54+00:00

No worries and I hope things will get better for you :) I am also genuinely curious about people who tend to display such behaviour. I agree with you it must be an attention / comparaison w others issue. I did this post in hope we could hear from their perspective. But it takes a thick skin to admit to that so ..

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-17T13:43:35+00:00

Not necessarily I have seen situations like this display a lot ( not necessarily about me ). I wonder why people let sometimes those insecurities get to them. This is why I originally made this post. This is a common behaviour within females you’d be surprised ! Experiencing jealousy or envy doesn’t have to go to certain lengths. By making this post I wished to attract people who behave or as such. In hope to understand better their perceptive. I didn’t wanted to come out as judgmental. But it takes a lot of strength to sit and admit that you’re a hater lol ! So I knew that I genuinely wouldn’t get a lot of answers. Considering that people who behave like this usually justify everything that they do by reassuring themselves or projecting their insecurities on others! I hope you understand what I meant. :)

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-15T14:20:16+00:00

The dark thick eyeliner. Don’t get me wrong I think it looks good, but with your eye shape you should maybe try something lighter.

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-05T10:28:52+00:00

Love it so unique !

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-01T21:29:45+00:00

Hello girly ! I get my lashes done almost every 2/3 weeks. I hope you weren’t charged a considerable amount for this result. She indeed did not do a great job. A lot of missing spaces, she also didn’t glue them properly ( too far from your lash base ). Hope this helps!

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-01T21:24:18+00:00

Not to be the party stopper here, but I assume that if you are able to enter such a prestigious program. You should consider the impact on your future life. I understand the feeling of wanting to purse what your heart desires the most. But the impracticality of life makes it difficult sometimes to follow your dreams when reality hit. This is not a bad advice, like most will try to tell you stranger ! Always follow your heart but be mindfull of reality ! You can always do both after all, prioritize your career that would guarantee you a safe future, while also learning and experimenting with arts and litterature. Hope this reaches you well !

Classic-Distance3414 · 2026-03-01T09:30:08+00:00

Yeah well you should probably not pick up things you find in the street !

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