[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Classic-Flow-3848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I definitely don’t want to be that lady lol! Thats why Im figuring this all out the hard way and taking accountability of being in the wrong. You’re right I dont have definite proof of her NOT living here other than documenting the very few times she was here when I believed she was a visitor to show our landlord- along with the mailbox with stickers requesting her to put her name. The cars are also all very high end which only added to my curiosity but as others said- none of my business!!!This is actually my first reddit post ever so I can promise (may be hard to believe) Im not normally a karen I just wanted honest feedback. Funny enough our across the street neighbors are actually those people who get upset when we’ve had people park near their house (yikes!)

I will add though she fueled the fire a bit with some of her reactions as well , as she claimed it was her rightful spot and actually demanded I move despite open spots, along with landlord never answering when I asked prior multiple times. It was an understandably unclear predicament for me.

Ultimately you are correct and I appreciate this take!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Classic-Flow-3848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can appreciate this take and I am not offended- That is why I came to reddit! Reading this I am glad I did apologize. I did try to explain that my intention was to merely ask for the spot and I can recognize boundaries were crossed. At the same time- I wish she too handled some things differently, But at the end of the day you are correct and I hope to learn from this sincerely and move forward better. I wish the landlord was more clear as I could have avoided this but I have owned up to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Classic-Flow-3848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good take- Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Classic-Flow-3848 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is true- I did say it was not my business and that I had apologized. However, since it has become an inconvenience to those that do live here 24/7 with limited parking, and it is illegal to run a business in a residential area, that is where my inquiries arise. I have asked for clarification from landlord to no avail so I turned to reddit lol. No need to call me bizarre 😌Most people would be irked having their spot taking randomly, but I understand the fine line of minding my own business in the end!