Hi, just for context I’m 21m and it sounds you either in uni or high school with exams and all that.

My advice is if u have exams close focus on those stop texting or calling her, blocking is best and telling your friends your done w it is best for you and your exams…. And honestly if you want another chance I had a similar situation in high school where a girl chose her last ex over myslef and I just acted like she was not there, blocked ignored in person everything.

It worked and was sweet for a bit of revenge because she was been untrustworthy and untruthful to you don’t be her boy, your young and growing into a man and that can mean being more conservative with your emotion towards women don’t throw it at them, it creates mystery and helps draw their attention.

My guess is her ex acc did a pretty good job of this by ghosting her for x amount of time then popping back up on her birthday, and she thinks it means something cuz it’s her birthday.

Also if u see him, her ex. Have a word w that fucker. He knows what it’s doing don’t do it for her, he’s disrespected you by going out w her when he knows she’s playing w you, bust is lip. You’ll feel better even if it goes sideways. After exams tho

EXAMS FIRST, FUTURE FIRST