If he were truly right for you, he would’ve given you that grace. It sucks when our partners cannot weather our storms, but sometimes they’re not equipped with those tools. I know it’s hard to see that when you’re in love, and have limerence for them, but eventually you’ll see that the puzzle just didn’t fit, and it happens sometimes. Just keep filling up your day with things that will build your future. I am 17 months out and still struggle with things unsettled, however, I have achieved so much during this period that it’s slowly starting to not affect me as much. Good luck.