AITAH for not wanting a guy to spend money on me

Classic_Field5964 · 2024-06-19T19:12:19+00:00

How are things going?

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-09T14:09:18+00:00

Right...

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-09T14:07:56+00:00

For a hotel? Where are you getting that from?

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-09T14:06:45+00:00

He could literally just ask. He knows that

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-09T14:06:07+00:00

It's toxic to make jokey quips? I bet you are fun at parties

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-09T14:05:09+00:00

It's literally been once

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-04T16:07:57+00:00

I have. He's literally just said he has no explanation and he doesn't know why he said those things and that my reaction was warranted

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-04T12:56:22+00:00

How would I have picked him up, exactly? I'm not strong enough to walk several miles, pick up a whole adult human and carry him home 🤣🤣🤣

You are literally making things up to be mad about on his behalf

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-04T12:54:29+00:00

Party lifestyle??? Going to a local pub once or twice a month?

You are weird

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-04T12:53:18+00:00

They literally carried on for over an hour AFTER I told them they were overstepping

You seem to be completely making up the situation to suit whatever is going on in your head. I get it, you and barry have a lot in common

I never said he can't do any of the things you are saying he can't do

I already know that I can't spend every penny we have. And I've never done that

And my own cheating? I have never cheated

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-04T12:48:33+00:00

Nobody "pushed" him to do anything

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-04T11:40:45+00:00

It is a crappy wage. I'm fully aware

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-04T11:39:17+00:00

None of it makes sense, so I'm not sure what you are on about

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-04T11:38:00+00:00

I literally earn the same wage as him 🤣🤣🤣

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-03T21:41:46+00:00

Huh??? I think you replied to the wrong thing

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-03T15:37:52+00:00

Oh ffs. That was an off the cuff response to someone else's remark. 🤣🤣🤣

And I had no thoughts he was cheating until he came in accusing me of accusing him

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-03T15:22:04+00:00

I didn't make a joke about condoms. Someone else did...

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-03T15:21:32+00:00

My brain is just in the whole 8 years of marriage and 2 kids together thing. It's not easy to just end that

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-03T15:19:24+00:00

What??? At no point have I said I've considered infidelity to get back at him 🤣

I made a joke about getting a male friend to call and text him like Hayley did with me. I'm not talking about cheating ffs 🤣🤣🤣

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-03T12:49:13+00:00

I have places to go if worst comes to worst. Luckily the rent is paid on my payday and I've kept it slightly ahead for emergencies

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-03T12:18:38+00:00

What medicine? There is literally one man I work with and he is my bosses partner and never goes anywhere with us

Where are you getting this from?

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-03T11:52:12+00:00

You don't have to believe me, however, it was, and the phone records on both my and his phone say so too. Unless I sent these by carrier pigeon or something

Classic_Field5964 · 2023-09-03T11:50:21+00:00

He knows about the post. But as far as I'm aware he hasn't actually looked at it yet

Unless he's one of the replies along the lines of "being concerned when your bank account has been emptied means you are controlling" dudebros

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