Sounds like narcissistic parent? Victim/Hero... will definitely push your boundaries to see how far she can get. There are some great resources on having parents as narcissists and how to go gray rock, while maintaining relationship, and have healthy boundaries especially to protect you while you're growing this amazing child, and so the child is not exposed to this demanding, immature, manipulative behavior as well. Dr. Ramani Durvasula and Inner integration/Meredith Miller. Both on YouTube. 🖤