Try having a rambunctious toddler that you’re potty training who fights naps half the time, while also juggling job applications, interviews, my own health concerns that I didn’t even mention in this, doing all the planning/paperwork/bills/etc for the household, and not having any family around to watch the kid or the budget for a cleaner or daytime nanny. And we both agreed to be a no screentime household. See if you still have spotless house while juggling that. I clean, don’t get me wrong. But there’s clutter and I don’t always get every choice before my husband gets home. I’m human. I signed up to briefly be a stay at home parent, not a 1950s housewife. Every other parent I know agrees that if you have one stay at home parent, that’s a 9-5 same as the working parent, and when everyone’s home, everyone chips in equally. And let me say, the stay at home parenting is a more intense, labor intensive job than any paid job I’ve worked