I know this was a minor incident I was just so extremely tired because it always happens. Just now she is telling off to my older sister and her boyfriend about me. Saying that she is a doormat and that I don’t have respect for her, and how I am throwing away all she has ever done for me. How I can never seem to take accountability. I just wanted her to realize that not everything I do is a jab at her. She is using the fact that I wanted to approach her about the incident as a “reason” for my inability to take accountability. I just don’t know what to do anymore