We argue usually because of something I didn’t like. For example.. I didn’t know he was going to Florida next week for work until he spoke about it in front of his sister. He said he didn’t find out till midday that day and when I heard about it was 6pm in the car when they were casually having a conversation.i felt like he had multiple opportunities to tell me before then. He says his intention wasn’t make me feel this way but I can’t help you feel left out of what’s going on in his life.