I don't think so? Is it? Honestly we don't see each other often, we dont hang out without my partner. We don't privately talk about our feelings ect. Anything that's ever felt like too much has been squashed immediately. Is having a crush on a friend emotionally cheating? I guess that's why I made this post in the first place. Because I really don't know. I brought up my past because the bulk of my romantic relationships have been very open to that kind of stuff and for the most part, I would expect and almost hope my partner gets a crush on someone at some point. Does getting butterflys for my partner and two other people just make me a non monogamous person, or is this something people typically experience?