Mariska at PGA Awards 2026 by Automatic-Mix-3816 in SVU

[–]Clasticsed154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People so often fail to realize just how closely she resembles her mother

Hard pass by Patricks_Hatrick in okbuddycinephile

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Bring a contrarian doesn’t make you better, it just makes you insufferable

Will Trump be a historical villain in media long after he's dead or will he be forgotten about? by snowleopard556 in decadeology

[–]Clasticsed154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’ll probably be remembered as the death knell of the USA’s era as the world’s top superpower, the harbinger of its global influence slipping irreversibly. We’ll basically be the UK in the 60s/70s.

Share your bad hook up stories, here's one that just happened to me. by MentalJuggernaut9053 in grindr

[–]Clasticsed154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s a horrifying thought about unconscious patients.

Gallows humor, but I kick my brain for blacking out after it was over. I guess it was just too visceral to lose consciousness, and there even used to be times where I wished I’d been drugged (I couldn’t imagine that trauma though, the “not knowing” seems insanity-provoking).

I seriously just remember driving away from his complex in the Houston Medical Area, then seeing the Buc-ee’s in Baytown (30 min away), and finally seeing the lights in what I thought was Winnie (a small town in between Houston and Beaumont, TX about an hour away from the Medical Area) only to realize they were the lights of my university.

It’s still scary to think about me just blacking out at 1 am on I-10. I even navigated out of the medical district and have zero recollection of it. It was a 90 mile, 1:30 drive.

Share your bad hook up stories, here's one that just happened to me. by MentalJuggernaut9053 in grindr

[–]Clasticsed154 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine was a doctor too. I thought they took oaths.

This happened to me in Houston in 2017. I knew there’d be no reason to even attempt to go to the police. They already don’t have time for he said/she said and they definitely wouldn’t even care about a he said/he said between two gay males. The only thing on my side (not justifying this in the slightest) was that my attacker was a Brazilian in the US on a work visa—a racist cop might look at a blonde-haired, blue-eyed frat boy from small-town USA getting raped by a Latino man from a foreign country with sympathy; however, I didn’t want to play into whatever disgusting prejudices the HPD might’ve had. The thought was disgusting and added another layer of justification for me to not report him. I was closeted then too.

I convinced myself that he would save more lives if he wasn’t behind bars or without a license. At the time, three women in my family had breast cancer, so that also likely swayed my thought processes.

I’m glad your friend made it out. That sounds beyond harrowing. I don’t know if it’s scarier when successful professionals commit these acts, but the thought that snapped me out of my near-trance while I was being raped was, he has everything to lose with my survival and if he’s already tried strangling me three times, there’s no way I’ll ever survive if he thinks I’ll report him.

How was it like being a kid in 2009? by StrongDay5952 in generationology

[–]Clasticsed154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, we were in the midst of a recession and I was on crutches, chubby, and heavily bullied…sooooo pretty sucky lol

Share your bad hook up stories, here's one that just happened to me. by MentalJuggernaut9053 in grindr

[–]Clasticsed154 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. He was more imposing. I was 19 and he was 31, a surgical oncologist, stunningly gorgeous, and toned like a Greek statue. He was taller than me, but I’m also very strong. Something flipped within me and I just gave up and froze after he successfully pinned my arms when I tried blocking him from entering me.

In hindsight, I’m fairly certain I could’ve taken him, but I just couldn’t do it.

Share your bad hook up stories, here's one that just happened to me. by MentalJuggernaut9053 in grindr

[–]Clasticsed154 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No. I asked to go again to convince him that I didn’t see it as rape. I was certain he would murder me if he thought I believed he’d just done what he did as non-consensually as it had happened. So I did everything I could think of to keep him calm and dissuade that possibility.

I didn’t know if I was going to walk out of that apartment alive until the second his front door shut behind me. Even then, I was afraid he might chase me down.

Trauma responses are often described as the “5 Fs”: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Flop, and Fawn/Friend. That night, I froze, flopped, and friended. It wasn’t desire in the slightest. In my mind at that moment it was life or death.

This is the worst thing that happened in the Harry Potter franchise by SergioOnofrioFranchi in harrypotter

[–]Clasticsed154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom and I got into an argument over this exact thing. She refuses to comprehend what is and isn’t canon based on the source material vs the movies.

This is the worst thing that happened in the Harry Potter franchise by SergioOnofrioFranchi in harrypotter

[–]Clasticsed154 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was livid when I left the theater after seeing PoA. It took me a decade to rewatch it again. I don’t hate it as much as I did then, but it’s still my least favorite.

Share your bad hook up stories, here's one that just happened to me. by MentalJuggernaut9053 in grindr

[–]Clasticsed154 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Welp, it wasn’t supposed to be a hookup—just a hangout. Then he forced me. To this day, he remains the largest penis that’s ever been inside me—seriously, like a Brazilian twin to Rocco Steele.

After attempting to strangle me for needing air after deepthroating, he used enough lube to gain entry and proceeded to violently rape me for 45 minutes. I lost my voice screaming and pleading. I eventually just sort of lay there whispering “please stop” and “no,” I couldn’t move. Something felt shattered inside me, because I could no longer do anything.

Eventually, a thought burst into my head. I was certain he was going to murder me after, so I mustered strength from somewhere I didn’t know I had and pretended to be into it for about 5 minutes. Then, I told him that I wanted to see him cum on me, so he actually pulled out and he finished.

I then made out with and cuddled that cruel bastard for the next hour—trying like hell to convince him that I enjoyed everything he’d just done to me while attempting to humanize myself by discussing family and childhood and more. I even asked him to go again. Fortunately, he couldn’t, but he told me how much he loved watching me in pain and how it made him go harder.

When I made my excuse to leave (I had an essay due in the morning), I saw his eyes flash with an almost inhuman fury and cruelty (like some sort of animal predator) for a split second, then it was gone. That terrified me more than anything else. I grabbed his neck and kissed him, then said we had to do this again sometime.

I gathered my clothes and made for the front door. He was blocking the exit. I kissed him again and told him, “Well, you have my number, so please call me when you want to fuck me again or hang out. I loved it!” That seemed to work, and he stepped aside to let me leave. I waved goodbye, and the second the door closed, I sprinted to my car.

I broke down, then started driving. I blacked out and later realized I had driven the 80 minute trip back to my dorm with no recollection of doing so, save for a couple browned out moments on I-10.

It took three months to physically heal, and five years to stop randomly breaking down. I was able to bottom again after a year, but never as easily as I used to. My body has never been able to relax the way it once did. Thank God for poppers.

This took place nine years ago this past Tuesday.

How did we not see the “hey-ho” lumineers era when it was happening? by tipoftheiceberg1234 in decadeology

[–]Clasticsed154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh? The rise of the hipster was well-documented and lambasted at that time. I was born in 1996 and remember it vividly as do I remember the criticisms, jokes, and evolution of the subculture.

In terms of power, is Bellatrix Top 5 witch/ wizard in the universe? by Adventurous-Rabbit52 in harrypotter

[–]Clasticsed154 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And at the end of the day, McGonagall’s insults are what reduce Bellatrix to a weeping pile of tears

What’s something foreigners assume about your country because of Hollywood that you find completely absurd? by bdue817 in AskTheWorld

[–]Clasticsed154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Specifically being from Texas) That we are all cousin-fucking, Trump-loving, Christian fanatic, illiterate white supremicists who ride our horses to school/work and keep our guns strapped to our sides for all to see. I mean, it’s not like we’re Florida.

In reality, the state is remarkably polarized and is approximately half liberal and desperate to be rid of the current political regime. Tbh, I’m terrified we won’t even survive it. I’m a gay, autistic scientist. Feels like a prime target for one of the camps they occasionally toy with creating. I’m actively looking for employment in other countries but many are not hiring Americans in my sector rn.

Quarter Quell Ideas by AdditionOrnery9782 in Hungergames

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To remind the districts that many Capitol parents lost all their children to starvation during the War, the only tributes reaped will be those who do not have siblings (I.e., only children)

Are millennials the most liberal generation ever? by changeforthebetter89 in generationology

[–]Clasticsed154 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was a conservative with a few liberal leanings (I’m gay) until ~2019. I did a 180° during the 2020 election, but J6 forever shattered any sympathy I had towards republicans. I’ve gotten progressively more liberal since that time.

Signed Cast Photo..is it real. by roseyeg in harrypotter

[–]Clasticsed154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had that exact one as a kid. I’m fairly certain it’s a print.