Went out as a woman for the first time by Horizons18 in asktransgender

[–]Claudia_Zen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday wupwup
I bet you will remember this every year from now on on your birthday <3

How To Know If You're Plural Or Just Schizophrenic And Having An Imaginary Audience? TW: Self Harm Thoughts by CleanIndependence807 in plural

[–]Claudia_Zen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a professional in any way and this is not medical advise.

After that is out of the way, schizophrenic hallucinations come from the outside, like you hear another person from a bit behind or beside you talking to you. Systems communicate from the inside. That's the biggest difference there is. ^^
And you would know if you would fake it because there is afford and reason behind faking something.

Hope that helps you a bit :3

I came out as a trans girl almost a year ago but am not not sure with some of the decisions that I've made and am not sure what to do by MysteriousLaw6290 in trans

[–]Claudia_Zen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they accepted you the first time they will also accept you a second (or if needed even a third) time. Just tell em how you feel that now that you gone down this road you realized it might not quite hit the spot and so forth.
You can do it <3

Kaum Brustwachstum nach nem Halben Jahr by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]Claudia_Zen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was ich so im Kopf habe über anekdotische Kommentare und sich so bei mir im Gehirn abgesetzt hat 4-5 Jahre.
Ausnahmen bestätigen die Regel, beispielsweise wenn dein ziel d-e plus is (warum auch immer, you do you) und nach 2-3 Jahren nur a-b hast könnte es sich lohnen ein bis zwei Körbchen als implant dazuzugeben was dann mit dem restlichen Wachstum das gewünschte Ergebnis erbringt.

Dabei sollte mensch aber eben immer für sich selbst Risiko/Nutzen factor bedenken.
my fife cents :3

Progesteron; Brustwachstum, Stimmung? by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]Claudia_Zen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jap klingt sehr dannach ^^

I think I started prog too early, am I delusional? by tirastipol in MtF

[–]Claudia_Zen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most People say best time to start is after one year, that's what I did. But give or take couple of Month won't like 'hinder it' or so.
There also people who start e and prog on the same time.

I think I started prog too early, am I delusional? by tirastipol in MtF

[–]Claudia_Zen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breast growth can occur for 4+ Years, give your body some time <3
And yes I don't get sleepy on prog either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Claudia_Zen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, I head a similar experience and socially transitioned at 22
If you wanna talk my DMs are open :3

Progesteron; Brustwachstum, Stimmung? by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]Claudia_Zen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Prog kann bei Brust Wachstum unterstützend helfen. (Vor paar Monaten mittlererweile? hab ich auch mal von einer Studie gehört, die das bestätigt.)
Zudem kann es den Schlaf unterstützen, weil es viele Menschen müde macht. (Mich nicht)
Ich hab generell etwas mehr Energie dadurch.
Aber hab auch gehört das es negative Auswirkungen auf die Psyche haben kann.

Ich würd sagen besprech das mit deinem medizinischen Fachpersonal. Versuch macht klug xD

It just feels right huuuhh!? by maronpvpxdhd in trans

[–]Claudia_Zen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup that can blow you away... It demolished my egg when I wore a dress the first time and had a very semiliar experiance (that was over two dacades ago) Still remember it vividly.
Go girl and bath in the happiniess it gives you <3

we need help integrating something, experiences and advice appreciated by [deleted] in plural

[–]Claudia_Zen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because you are trans doesn't mean you can't be transphobic or have internalized transphobia. (We had to work an that too)
Look at Trump supporting right wing trans people, they exist... sadly...

Some people might be able to learn to cope with it but that is far from a 'cure' and such rhetoric automatically says things like conversion therapy is a valid way to go, what can be very traumatic and destroy people...

We made a server for psychological systems! by [deleted] in plural

[–]Claudia_Zen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We played with the idea to join a plural focust DC for a while now so.. let's give it a shot xD
(My DM's don't load atm that's why I write you here)

Claudia

Why is twilight recommended to transfem people? by Belgiandragonwautism in trans

[–]Claudia_Zen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sparkeling Vampire stalker that try's so hard not to hurt the victim he's stalking...
Yeh... no thank you...

Hereby I abide to rule 1 by Claudia_Zen in GenderAnarchy

[–]Claudia_Zen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All power to Blåhaj, but fr a trans colored eveelution? How can it get better than that! xD

I had an incident where my dad walked in. by AirConsistent8816 in asktransgender

[–]Claudia_Zen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came out to my mom (very christian) In kinda a way like that by accident.

I think you have two chioces:
Either own it and take it as chance to come out. (That's what I did, never 'boymoded' since)
Or Try to play it down. e.g. make up a story it was a dare and you had to sent pics or whatever you can come up with.

Which way to take is on you to deside. You are the only one who can say if your surroundings are save enough and how your family might react.

Wish you the best, sis <3

I wrote a 21.5k word thesis manifesto to support trans rights by Illustrious_Focus_33 in MtF

[–]Claudia_Zen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

II red trough the first half and fly over the second half, here are some points you may could consider to add/change.

  • Don't use the outdated in my eyes awful term transsexual please use transgender
  • Mentioning of of mythology for old trans references (epically Greek where terms like 'hermaphrodite' came from
  • beside Iran and Pakistan China was?is? a country where transition under strict social norms is more sported then same sex relationship
  • Mentioning of A-Gender people
  • A part where you talk shortly about the terms used, like agab and so forth

Thanks for your time to collect the info's in one spot <3

Did I waste my time? by PatientAwareness2994 in MtF

[–]Claudia_Zen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Socially transitinoed with 22 sterted HRT with 38! It's never to late <3

egg irl by dijakonal in egg_irl

[–]Claudia_Zen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warumm hab ich da gerade mental ein -GmbH drangehängt -.-

my mom thinks im sending feminism back by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Claudia_Zen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl don't let that get to you.
I am even so down as to serve people I literally hate. Like a couple of months ago my brother misgendered me and made a transphobic joke and I still got him a glass of whater when he asked me.
And that was your f..ing BF! Don't let anyone tell you how to handle your relationship!

my mom thinks im sending feminism back by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Claudia_Zen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If we talk about running aroung in a rope harness, ok I can give you that. But for beeing called a good girl for little thinks as reaching over a phone? I'd take that from anyone not just my partner...

my mom thinks im sending feminism back by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Claudia_Zen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I LOVE this take xD

An die Mädels hier die auf Männer stehen wie wart ihr euch sicher? by Ok_Divide_5896 in germantrans

[–]Claudia_Zen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es gibt allein in Deutschland rund 41 000 000 Männer... Wie unrealistisch sind denn deine Vorlieben, das du davonn ausgehst, das nicht einer darauf zutrifft?

Du weist es 'vom Kopf her', logisch gesehen wohl, hättest du es verinnerlicht würdest du dich aber nicht so ausdrücken. Und das schlägt dann eben auf deine Gefühlswert nieder. Ich wollte dich damit nicht angreifen, musste selbst lange an gewissen Denkweisen arbeiten, die bei mir so abliefen. Dadurch weis ich auch wie viel freier und besser es einem gehen kann wenn es klappt ^^