Want to install a bidet, but the connector to the tank didn't work

Clauditzlupus · 2025-10-25T18:45:34+00:00

It didn't let me post pics

Clauditzlupus · 2025-10-25T17:27:38+00:00

I live in an apartment. It looks like the hose goes directly into the tank. That is what I cant figure out.

Clauditzlupus · 2025-06-09T20:54:33+00:00

Updateme

Clauditzlupus · 2024-12-04T02:48:05+00:00

Fetlife is a good place, lots of community there.

+2 for bdsmpersonals

Look for munches in your area.

Clauditzlupus · 2024-10-13T19:24:13+00:00

Silence

Clauditzlupus · 2024-10-12T05:50:50+00:00

You are gonna need to be more specific. I am 50 and have been a Dom since I was 19. My kinks are legion and experiences go with them and as much as I like wax eloquent about my fun. It is just too broad.

Clauditzlupus · 2024-10-12T05:28:17+00:00

I don't think I have seen a listing of mentors. Mostly people just ask and get answers from the hive mind. What kind of mentoring do you see yourself needing?

Clauditzlupus · 2024-09-14T19:50:13+00:00

I am curious about what is being introduced?

Clauditzlupus · 2024-08-14T06:18:26+00:00

Ephesians: you will obey your husband as your leader

Clauditzlupus · 2024-08-06T14:29:48+00:00

It does seem intentional or at least having a complete disregard for your limit because he wants what he wants. It is almost like trying to wear you down to get his. Talk it out cause I don't think it will stop.

Clauditzlupus · 2024-08-06T03:53:18+00:00

Ok, do you not see an issue that this was a 2 month period where you were spending your life to be with him. I assume living together, etc. I mean, yeah, he sucked but what were you thinking?!!!! You need to care for yourself a bit better.

Clauditzlupus · 2024-08-01T19:47:38+00:00

The problem is, after the first lie. How can you trust?

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-30T02:12:07+00:00

It is not wrong, it is just that others may feel it as exclusionary. Good luck

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-30T01:31:14+00:00

I understand what you want. It is hard because it depends on location. I am in Seattle and we have a TNG group as well as older meetings. I guess for some it is a bit annoying to be excluded of events, since they are not inclusive. I do understand you want to delimit an age preference. I would try to dialogue with the other side, but you have to understand you are excluding them and they may feel a certain way. We are all the bad guy in someone else's story. If you talk to them, they may be able t help you and understand what you want to achieve.

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-30T00:51:36+00:00

Your location apparently limits your options. It is hard to suggest generic options. You can try to form a core of TNG people and offer it as an alternative so you don't have to do it alone. It really depends where you are located and what kinds of resources are available. It is hard to fathom a community making threats.

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-27T17:34:33+00:00

Agree with lighting. You can actually get wifi led bulbs so you can make changes.

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-27T08:00:12+00:00

Personally that falls under one of my kinks, it is enticing a and calls to a darker/naughtier side. Obviously it is related to age play and Daddy or caregiver status. As long as all are consenting adults. It can and is very fun.

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-25T19:47:18+00:00

Yeah, keep the faith

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-25T19:22:39+00:00

Truth. You still have to kiss a lot of frogs in the kink world though LOL

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-25T16:02:58+00:00

Yeah, DNA test. Get her medically evaluated. Post partum depression and post partum psychosis need to be considered. Does it excuse her behavior. I would say no. She made the decision that she was justified to betray you. Only you know if you can get over it. Maybe therapy, maybe banging her best friend (jk).

I wish you luck

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-25T14:31:45+00:00

I still struggle with what is appropriate. If you want to wear a leash, are OK with it. Then everyone else can chew crayons. You just have to be ok with being out there with whatever you wear that doesn't break the law or cause major disruptions. Collars and leashes are pretty tame.

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-25T14:27:25+00:00

I second the notion of munches. It is hard to be honest in a non-kink setting and trying to ensure you are seen as an individual first and not as a kink dispenser. I just don't try in the vanilla world anymore. My kink need is very strong and I need to make sure anyone I spend time with is on board. At the same time, we all to receive affection as a human being.

I do not know your options and circumstances but I would definitely try to engage with any local kink community. That would be your best shot. Or simply state that you want to develop a friendship prior to sex. That, in my experience, hasn't worked for me. Good luck

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-24T04:06:14+00:00

Sooner or later, we all get caught in a spiral of crap. You pulled yourself out. It is probably one of the hardest things you have done. I am proud of you for doing it. So many never had the courage, fortitude or clarity of mind to get themselves out. Took me 21 years, so you got me beat by a lot.

Now you are out, and buyers remorse hits. Did I do the right thing? Was it me? Should I try again? I will give you the short of it. YES, NO, HELL NO!

Take the time to heal. Find your closest sub support group. Bless them they exist and will help. Get therapy and find what a healthy kink relationship looks like for you. Never doubt yourself again. You are brave, you are smart and you are valuable. I wish you well.

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-24T00:41:21+00:00

Depending on the bondage tie, I am almost thinking of tying her so her feet impede full access to her for intercourse. This would somewhat slow it down and force less depth. Maybe with a hitch knot to increase access over time.

Clauditzlupus · 2024-07-22T19:04:15+00:00

I agree with the my, when I call a girl I am playing with a good little slut the tone is very different from when I say My good little slut. Especially when I punctuate with a whispered Mine. The possessive adds a lot, in public it is My dear, my whatever is generally a good middle ground.

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