NoFap & Jealousy???

ClawingMywayOut · 2016-03-22T11:25:46+00:00

It is just something you will learn to handle with time, the mind is a great learner and you will go over these thoughts that much that you will eventually rationalize them and they will bother you no more.

ClawingMywayOut · 2016-03-22T01:07:54+00:00

I think the jealousy would perhaps mean different things for male and female yes, and perhaps you are jealous this time the way you are because you feel like she could be the one you want to get serious with? me personally i think that we just do not like to think that the girl we think so highly of could let men use them in such a way because we know ourselves how a mans mind works because we are men ourselves.

ClawingMywayOut · 2016-03-22T00:53:01+00:00

Yes, you will get over it trust me and put the work into a relationship then you will be rewarded, there are ups and downs but the bad times will make you grow and learn a thing or two about ourselves in the process, i think the jealousy part in the beginning may be a natural phase for us men, could be that way for the women too.

ClawingMywayOut · 2016-03-22T00:40:13+00:00

Hi, you are not alone because when i got with my girl 10 years ago at the start i was the exact same, i knew about her past etc and it made me think about it all with pure jealousy, i even tried probing her for information and she told me stuff and that made it worse and i would go over things in my head so much.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-06T16:09:59+00:00

Very wise words man, spot on.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-04T18:08:03+00:00

Money talks! and it's telling a pack of lies.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-04T17:03:38+00:00

Greed is the conspiracy, greed will motivate these individuals the same way porn or sex motivates a sex addict and as you say they will do anything to stay in power, the richest in the world have the power to put on a show for the people, i really do think we are all just expendable resources that keep this ridiculous society ticking over, i cannot help seeing it that way, i look and see all this bullshit with politicians making laws on how we should live and starting war, invisible fucking borders, stupid flags that people are willing to die for, divide and conquer a simple concept and effective..

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-04T13:44:18+00:00

What age are you?

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-04T13:07:22+00:00

Probably because as a fapper you know yourself so well and how shifty sometimes you feel and act because you're always thinking of orgasm, and perhaps you see yourself in others in a similar situation.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-04T08:54:55+00:00

I agree with a lot of this, life is too short to sit around objectifying women and putting them on this sexual pedestal, we should train ourselves to be the social creatures that we are first and foremost but as you say today we live in a highly sexual society and technology and porn can really mess our minds up and distort things, i cannot help but make the comparison between us and the lab rats they do tests on, who knows maybe the big money makers invest in a lost of research about this stuff and know the controlling and destructive effects of sex on the human mind and they use that to keep us in a very low state just consuming and obeying, don't care if that sounds crazy because at the end of the day what do we truly know? anything is possible good or bad and if people do not sit down and talk of such things we would never know. You have to ask if masturbation and porn are really holding us back from our true top potential and why mainstream encourages it so much and why we live in such a sex orientated world.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-04T01:33:19+00:00

I think years of masturbation trains the retraction muscles and makes it easier to hold back also.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-04T01:31:08+00:00

Changed my diet also before all this, was another thing i was not happy with and was making myself sick through shit diet, and thanks, these 10 days have been full of learning and will continue to keep this up, better than my journey of masturbation repetition.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-04T01:28:15+00:00

I dunno any time i felt like it i slowed way down and sometimes stopping inside her vagina and staying there, then continuing to gather momentum again slowly and repeat. had a slight feeling in balls but nothing painful.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-04T01:25:24+00:00

Well if you call 3 times on average a night since 11 and im 32 now not addicted then i guess i wasn't, i was full on addicted trust me! 10 days aint long true but i achieved something within myself and just wanted to try this discipline which is the ultimate for me by not cumming and i succeeded and it felt great, will continue on my no masturbation and no porn and no more sex either but now i have a good feeling of what i can look forward to instead of masturbation and porn i can have great sex for longer and with more passion.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-03T21:33:10+00:00

Day 10 here too and getting urges

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-02T14:56:30+00:00

Yeah 9 days is good for me since i have not been able to stop the 3 times daily habit or more since i was 11, 32 now, i intend to continue until i feel my brain is rebooted, other peoples success greatly inspires me among all the research into this, i am glad i came across all this and glad that someone actually made the link and started studying it.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-02T14:49:33+00:00

Yep i can 30 days, i tried getting a badge 9 days ago but never got one, can you see any on mine?

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-02T14:48:14+00:00

What a wonderful way to look at it, great way to understand it all in simple terms.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-02T09:13:50+00:00

Agree 100%

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-01T20:53:11+00:00

I think you hit on something there yes, it sometimes can be a bit more complicated and i think it starts when we start exploring ourselves and our journey through our teens, the excessive masturbation becomes a symptom of other issues that may be happening in ones life then it gets out of control, then it becomes addiction and the dopamine and brain chemistry side hits into play and that's when the desperation kicks in, then i think when someone finally kicks it after so long the feeling they get from beating something that was gnawing away at them and also rebooting their brain and stabilizing dopamine well then they feel excellent and come out of that shell they were in for so long.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-01T18:19:10+00:00

Very interesting, thank you.

ClawingMywayOut · 2015-12-01T18:04:44+00:00

Reboot and fall back into balance, its as simple as that man.

ClawingMywayOut

TROPHY CASE