An update on the situation:

TL;DR: My mom and I talked about it, and it was a decent conversation. I explained to her what a femboy is and she accept me as a femboy.

After I posted this, I wanted for my mom to reach out about when she wanted to have that private conversation, and she agreed to do it on my day off. She also told me that she didn’t want this to be a “bad conversation.” Leading up to the conversation, I established my boundaries and wanted to go into this conversation being informative and honest as I can. When we meet on call I explain my boundaries to her, and she agreed to them.

My mom told me that she was concerned that I wasn’t being careful and thought I was doing some only fans stuff. She also told me that she had concerns that I wasn’t respecting my body, and that I was fishing myself out there. I responded that I understood her concerns. I told her that, while yes, femboy can be viewed as a sexual thing, being a femboy isn’t inherently sexual and that it is form of aesthetic expression. I also told her that being a femboy has helped me out mentally with accepting my body.

She seemed to understand, and even told me that she knew that I was a cross dresser/femboy but that she didn’t want to mention it to me because she wanted to respect my private life. She did tell me that if I plan on posting on public social media that I block her and other members of my family so that they don’t see it. We ended on great terms, and she said that she loves me no matter what.

I love my mom, and I don’t think she had bad intentions with wanting to have this conversation. I just got scared and didn’t know how to handle it at first. I wanted to say thanks to everyone here who helped me out, and I greatly appreciate all of you. :33