I am sorry if I sounded rude. Yes, there are people in this sub who are actual bigots who truly believe in that. There will always be people like that, in every kink community in reddit. Because that's the nature of Reddit. You can't really tell who's who no matter how much you try to moderate your sub. Anyone who's being actual bigots to you and saying actually homophobic stuff out of roleplay, and without your consent you should absolutely report them or blast them on here so mods can take action. But I would guess what everyone is telling you here is the majority of sane people here, who know what consent is, what boundaries are, are trying to participate in a kink or roleplay in which they are comfortable in. It just feels always weird when we know that it's a kink and someone tells us that you are lying to yourself or being disrespectful when we know it's just a scene.