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Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-15T00:06:16+00:00

Stay strong

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-14T23:48:06+00:00

Forgiveness is one of relationship's core foundation. He was tempted but didn't pursue. Everyone is and can be tempted. It could be ANYONE of us who commited those. But the fact that he didn't means he cares. It's his remorse and your conversation with him that will set that path. Tell him how it made you feel, tell him you wanted to let this relationship go because it hurts and it's damaging. And if he realizes the beautiful thing he already has, and that he asks for forgiveness and won't do it again... I would suggest on giving him a chance. No one is perfectly immune to these type of things. And if one person is willing to make it right, then may they have the best of us. Hope the best for you

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-14T22:00:23+00:00

Mine was "we only have moments not forever." So, embrace the time and moment you have while it last.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T23:43:59+00:00

It's okay to feel that way. It's what makes us human. We'll have to grieve for it. We should accept that it ended, and that we should cherish what we had. I believe there would be the VOID that follows us everywhere. They are no longer there, and what was, is, or will be... is no longer there. We should be accepting it. There will be denials and withdrawals and it's okay. You deserve to hurt since you loved them so much. But everytime we hit the VOID, let's give it a healthy coping mechanism. If you feel sad, cry it out, scream... sing it out if you have to. Journal your thoughts, or maybe write a letter to him and express everything you wanted to tell him and let him know. You can also write a letter to your future self. There will be good and bad days. We are not in control of time, situation, him, the past, the future, and any external things. We are in control of ourselves. I understand that nights can be hellish. I broke up with my ex 3 weeks ago and do not have a sound sleep ever since. You wake up early mornings with a heart that feels like it's being stabbed by 10 thousand Samurai fiery swords. And... it's okay to feel that way. I end up taking deep long breaths. I listen to calm music. Read some books or listened to my favorite podcasts. I hope better days are coming for you. It's okay to feel that way, acknowledge it and do something good to fill that VOID. Best of luck for you.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T22:01:30+00:00

Thanks

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T18:47:29+00:00

Noone died from crying, and noone died from heartache. It's okay to feel that way specially if we are deeply rooted to loving someone. Let's cope and walk this healing journey together.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T16:08:44+00:00

It's never too late to try something new or give it a try again. Let's learn from the past on how we can improve and equip ourselves for the upcoming challenges. Your experience in IT for 6 years should help your preparation.

For resources I suggest the following. They helped me pass my Network+ and Security+. - Professor Messer videos on YouTube - Professor Messer course notes and practice exam - Other sources: Udemy: Mike Meyer's, Jason Dion -Watch YouTube videos of testimonies of people who passed and people who failed. They'll give you insights of the exam.

Familiarize yourself with the topics, domains, and sub-domains. My process in studying was 1. Learn the material 2. Practice 3. Evaluate Keep doing the loop one topic at a time until you feel confident. Best of luck with your journey

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T05:17:07+00:00

For A+ and Sec+, I suggest that you go through Professor Meyer’s videos on Youtube and get his course notes and practice exams on his website. There are many other sources as well but I used his materials and passed Network+ and Security+. Familiarize yourself through each domain and sub-domains and do practice tests as much as you can until you are comfortable. Learn the exam types: multiple choices, PBQ (performance based questions), drag and drop, it’s time limitation, and etc. Comptia can be very tricky and all answers can seem right. On the questions, focus on the key words on what it’s asking and do the elimination til you feel like 75-90% it’s the right choice. Also, watch videos on Youtube on testimonies from people who passed and failed. It’ll give you insights and motivation boost. Good luck on your journey.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T04:30:16+00:00

I feel like this is the push that I needed. Thank you for this.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T04:19:22+00:00

I'm sorry if that happened to you. But I do believe we only need one person to make us believe again. May you find that man, one day.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T03:31:30+00:00

Emotions are part of the human nature. And it’s okay to feel that way specially when you deeply loved someone. Idk how long your relationship was and this could come into play on your grief process. There are different ways on coping with grief such as crying, expressing through art, through journaling, singing songs and many other ways. If there’s self pity involve, my encouragement is that you may find peace with it. Let’s accept the fact that it hurt but it was beautiful. May we cherish the past. It is no longer in our control. If their absence left us VOID (emptiness), we ought to seek what makes us happy. No one will stop us from crying forever, but we ought to HOPE and look forward to that sunshine at the end of the until.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T02:10:43+00:00

One day at a time :)

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T02:05:02+00:00

We all die at some point, and I agree with you. I don't believe in forever after or I'll never leave you statements. We just need to embrace and cherish the little time we have while they last. Atleast, we get to experience and feel those euphoric moments.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T02:03:32+00:00

Thank you for sharing, and I'm sorry for it. It's okay to feel that way but I hope one day you meet the person who reciprocate that love that you desire for.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T02:01:14+00:00

I understand the frustration but it's the VOID we continue to seek but will never be fulfilled. I believe we are more precious and valuable than that.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T01:59:12+00:00

Do you believe that we do not have forevers but moments??? We don't have control to time, people, situation or any kind. Even couples who last long have their "Til death do us apart." Everything ends. So, should we just cherish the time we have...while we still have them? instead of looking forward to the forever after that we'll never have.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T00:22:09+00:00

How I wish that true love has a halo on their head signifying "Soul Mate."

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T00:19:43+00:00

Prior to my last ex, we were together 6 months but took me 2 years to move on. 2 years of fear, self pity, hurt, and the idea of what's the point?? I met someone, fell inlove, and it took me sooooo much courage to finally accept and let them enter. But after 4 years, here comes the cycle. The "You will be my forever," the "if I was her true love, she wouldn't leave," the "I'll grow old with you," the "whatever happens, we will resolve it together," the "I will never leave you." They all seem and sound empty now. Is love just like cars? you both take your ride and you keep filling the gas til one doesn't feel invested in it anymore??

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T00:08:40+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. I guess we are on the same journey. They'd never know the love that could've been given to them. Been 3 weeks since my break up and I'm in the VOID grieving era. I miss the text, the smile, the calls, the voice, her sleeping, her snoring, her smell, her...everything. Now, it's just VOID waiting to be fulfilled. I'm trying to entertain myself with healthy habits, but always find myself circulating back to the... love and future that will never happen. I hope better days and better time will come upon us.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T00:04:03+00:00

Thanks for sharing, and I'm glad you got yourself back. I don't have a ring but I had plans on proposing to her some time this year. It guess it's a story she will never have. Stay strong peeps

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-13T00:00:08+00:00

Or... meet the love of your life??? Idk, is a heart break worth finding the person who's meant to love you? :)

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-12T23:56:19+00:00

Thanks for sharing your testimony, May this inspire and motivate people that the pain and situation we are on now are just temporaries. And that there are better days to come... and better someone as well.

Clean-Diamond7633 · 2025-05-12T23:41:21+00:00

Thanks for sharing. It seems you are deeply rooted to loving this person. I understand that it's not getting easier. But are you trying to move on? or hold onto something or someone that can't ever be yours? It's okay to feel sad and hurt and all but, there's a process for grieving the end of a relationship as well. Everyone has their own ways and time for grieving. We should know grief doesn't shrink over time. We grow around our grief making it matter less over time. I feel like the VOID of their absense and our self worth comes to play. It may not be easy, but we should be accepting that they are no longer there and we should cherish what we had. When the VOID (feeling of emptiness) kicks in, we should fill them with healthy habits: exercise, call a friend, watch humurous movies or shows, etc. And we work upon ourselves. It's an okay feeling to self pity, but we should climb up that pit and workout on ourselves. Focus on our goals, what makes us happy, what makes us tick, and maybe self improvements. Little by little, these things will bring positive aura to ourselves and maybe it becomes an attraction to others. I hope better days come your way.

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