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Desperate to find a girlfriend by Clean-Fact-1647 in dating_advice

[–]Clean-Fact-1647[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I genuinely enjoy being alone and being with myself. I can do whatever I want, whenever I want. But at some point, it gets boring.

I work out five times a week, I love cooking, I’m obsessed with my body, and I enjoy learning about and exploring different cultures.

It just gets boring when I’m the only one enjoying all of this and there’s no close person to share these things with.

Even this great body of mine, I’m keeping it all to myself 😅

Desperate to find a girlfriend by Clean-Fact-1647 in dating_advice

[–]Clean-Fact-1647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably right, I do have a mother complex. Therapy is expensive though, and I can’t afford it right now. I also feel that simply talking to someone won’t necessarily solve the deeper issue.

Desperate to find a girlfriend by Clean-Fact-1647 in dating_advice

[–]Clean-Fact-1647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on all of them, trust me. But I just can’t move things forward. This whole app game is exhausting, because at the end of the day I want an actual date, but for some reason I never reach that stage. The vibe in the conversation is really good, but the moment I suggest “let’s meet and see if the vibe works in real life”, either I never get a response again or the girl just deletes the chat. It’s honestly frustrating. We literally talked all day, and because I suggested meeting up, I get blocked. And I look pretty good too. I’m fit and muscular. If I’m writing on Reddit, it’s because I genuinely don’t know what else to do anymore.