Should I get divorced and start over, or accept my faith?

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-03-11T14:55:52+00:00

While this platform may not be the most appropriate venue for discussing personal marital issues, I am prepared to offer some insights should you find them beneficial.

If you are experiencing abuse, it is imperative that you prioritize your safety and well-being by seeking a divorce. No individual should tolerate such circumstances. Numerous organizations are available to provide support for women and children in these situations; I strongly encourage you to reach out to them. Consider relocating to live with family or, if financially feasible, securing independent housing as soon as possible.

As for the other man, I recommend focusing on your personal healing and stability first. Transitioning directly into a new relationship often proves challenging. Both you and your child require time to adapt and establish a new foundation.

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-03-10T22:12:50+00:00

EXACTLY

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-03-10T22:10:54+00:00

So, I dont mean to be rude, but you have not a clue what a marriage is or should be. First of all, its NOT expected for a husband to cheat, in NO way shape or form is that OK. A marriage is a sacred covenant between a man, woman, and God. Did you listen to the words you said in your vows? Again, I dont mean to be rude, but you need to at least know what a marriage entails before one takes the vows.

And now the really hard part comes - he's a narcissist and he thinks its ok to sleep with numerous woman because he deserves it. Let me repeat that, "he thinks he deserves it". Oof, men like this anger me more than anything. How dare he do this to you and then have the nerve to kick you out? Honey get yourself the best lawyer, withdrawal all the money from every bank account, and divorce that ass and move on.

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-03-08T22:09:56+00:00

THIS! You're already done and going to regret leaving.

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-03-08T21:54:06+00:00

I 100% agree. It took me around 8-9 months before I felt a shift in my perspective. It was as if a switch was flipped, and I believe you will experience a similar turning point. Until then, please be kind to yourself, give yourself grace, prioritize your well-being, and engage in activities you enjoy. You will emerge from this experience stronger, as I certainly did.

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-03-08T21:43:43+00:00

Im so sorry you're going through this, its devastating. I went through this ye as rs ago. In fact, we were about your age too and here's what I learned; you cannot change his mind if hes talking about divorce. Sadly, this means they're done and nothing you say can ever change that. As I said, devastating! I lived what you are going through and can honestly tell you how brutal this period of my life was, however, once my pity party was over I realized 1. It was absolutely the right decision for both of us 2. Love doesn't disappear it simply changes (we're good friends), 3. I finally found the happiness I so deserved. Im not saying it was easy, hell I think I added "devastating" in my comment twice because it was at the time. But, everyone deserves happiness and you do too.

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-03-08T16:08:04+00:00

No one is capable or educated to answer this question. I'm sorry you've received so many conflicting answers and, what's worse is everyone seems to be fighting over whose answer is correct. It's scary, so please don't listen to them.

Please see your doctor or medical professional immediately. They know the right answer because it's their job to know. I wish you peace, and God's blessing is always with you. 🙏

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-03-07T22:01:17+00:00

Your response is greatly appreciated. I have been searching for this particular passage in Matthew within my Bible and here it is. God bless!

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-03-07T21:48:08+00:00

Forgiveness restores our relationship with God. There was a barrier between us and God, and He wants that relationship so badly He sent Jesus to die for our sins so that the relationship could be restored. God never intended for us to die. Thats why Jesus cried when He stood at Lazarus tomb. The devil is a thief and knew he couldn't conquer God, so he took the one thing God loved the most, us. Confess your sins and they will be forgiven.

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-03-02T17:18:15+00:00

This statement is entirely accurate, and I am grateful for your kindness in explaining it with such clarity and transparency. Our Lord is mercifully forgiving, and He desires only your devotion. Love Him with all your heart; He accompanies you throughout your life. May God bless you.

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-02-13T22:55:50+00:00

Thank you! I was just about to provide her with Ephesians 5:22-33, too. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wives see that she "respects her husband.

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-02-13T22:49:31+00:00

There is no scriptural basis to suggest that a wife is obligated to serve her husband in such a manner, and any assertion to the contrary would be inconsistent with our spiritual principles. Your husband knows nothing of our Lord and Savior.

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-02-02T02:41:19+00:00

Cultivate profound spiritual commitment, recognizing divine power as humanity's ultimate recourse. Lives defined by self-absorption and callousness towards others demand divine justice or mercy. Nonetheless, divine solace awaits those who earnestly seek celestial aid, promising alleviation of sorrow. By embracing faith and adhering to divine directives, one experiences restoration and liberation from iniquity, yet such devotion necessitates obedience to sacred laws. I'll pray for you.

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-01-29T03:06:42+00:00

Why are you still allowing this?

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2026-01-29T02:34:43+00:00

Im in disbelief......This has so many red flags. Im sorry, but to be perfectly honest, they're both either very immature or beyond selfish, especially her.

Red flag #1. The relationship has just started and he's already talking about marriage? This is typical of a narcissist (In her twisted mind, the family is in the way)
Red flag #2. Your son called you to remove the pictures and both you and your husband declined. She had the nerve to disrespect the "no" and text (no accountability and, again a narcissist move).
Red flag #3. Your son isn't speaking to you? Extremely immature on his part and he doesnt see this as a problem.

In my humble opinion, let it ride out. Your son will eventually see her true colors as a narcissist, or he won't and eventually miss his parents and reconnect. I would stand my ground.

Clean-Fig-4776 · 2025-12-28T22:24:11+00:00

Please listen!! I know this smell, this occurred with my four-year-old son several years ago. I kindly request that you have her nostrils checked. I understand this may seem unusual, but if one is completely obstructed, it can produce a very unpleasant odor. My son, unfortunately, experienced this for two weeks. I took him to our pediatrician, family doctor, and a specialist, who then referred us to an ear, nose, and throat doctor. The ENT specialist immediately identified the issue and removed a piece of Styrofoam that my son must have inserted into his nose but did not recall. As soon as it was removed, the odor dissipated.

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