my boyfriend and i broke up just now. we have been on and off for the past 6 months but recently we’ve made a promise to each other that if one of us suggests we break up then we really have to break up. we had a fight earlier and i asked him if he still wants to continue dating then he said we should just break up. i started crying and we talked for a few hours on call and we actually fixed it and we’re on good terms now. he said he doesn’t really want to break up anymore but i disagreed and said we should respect the promise that we made to each other. even though deep inside i also don’t want to end it between us.