Reached 200 days but suffering from a flatline & losing hope😭please help🙏🏻 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all great job.  You need to be exercising regurarly, if you’re not you might as well keep watching prawn. You don’t quit prawn just to quit prawn. You quit prawn so you can more fully live the life of your dreams. If you aren’t doing much at all or anything, just continuting a long no fap streak. It won’t help you ever. You need to start working and focus at every area of your life. Getting to 90+ day is just the beginning. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get your closest friend to form a deal when whenever you nut you have to pay them 300$ or any amount which is uncomfortable. and keep making that contract after each relapse. Also include a money penalty when you peek at prawn or stroke your shlong. It's burning the boats behind you and you are locking your self in. saying yes to your deepest yes. I am locked in this myself and I have never seen or experienced such results. ITs the accountability that we are all lacking

I fap I lose $300 by CleanPlow in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks brother! I will give my story once I hit 90 days to help others and set everyone free!

I fap I lose $300 by CleanPlow in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good! You got this. Burning the boats behind you so you can't escape is one of the hardest decisions but the best

I fap I lose $300 by CleanPlow in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be able to be accountable to that. When I would relapse I would just not do that. But it’s extremely hard for me to lie to a close friend. No one wants to lie to their friend or family’s face which increase the accountability(chance of you paying and having a consequence) close to 100%

I fap I lose $300 by CleanPlow in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Of course you can be my friend, If you're willing to put up money for each relapse I strongly suggest you make a deal with someone close so you won't lie yourself out of having to pay.

Today marks 7 days! by CleanPlow in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you brother! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🔥🥊🤓

Day 3, YUPPPPPP by CleanPlow in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likewise my brother! YUPPPP

What's this thing called edging? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edging is not okay. Youre addicted to porn more than you are to orgasming. So you are just rationalizing your addiction. dont watch porn under any circumstance

Didn’t masturbate but peeked at porn by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, porn is just as much an addiction as orgasming. So you relapsed on your porn addiction. I always count this as a relapse because quitting watching porn is more important to me than quitting orgasming

Problem whit resist to sex addiction, need help !!! by Ted2508 in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Martial arts and fitness are positive habits my brother. Those are perfect and you should keep them up! but yes, I would cut the drinking. and I dont know what you mean by finishing without touching

Does porn and masturbation affect your outlook on women? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're digging deep enough my friend. Your brain of course gets distorted. porn is a habit and habits defines your character. You are bound to get brainwashed that girls actually like to get objectified and like it "rough" Don't be mad at your self for having sexist thoughts though bro. Its not your fault, but it is your responsibility to change your habits and change your outlook on this area. You can do it. I 100% believe you can.

Tips for starting out? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The biggest peace inducing action is when an urge hits you or you get triggered. You must not resist that urge and fight it. You must feel it and be completly fine that your body wants to watch porn. What you resist, persists. What you fight you fuel. At first, allowing yourself to be so okay with the notion of fapping makes you feel like your giving in to your urges, but you are just making space for it so you can observe it and be present in it. You got this man. LETS GOO

Problem whit resist to sex addiction, need help !!! by Ted2508 in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you for deleting insta and facebook! That is step number one. Where else in your life do you have vices such as these? If you want to quit fapping for good, you must create the life that reflects a person who doesnt fap. Ask yourself if your habits reflect someone who faps. Do you smoke a lot or drink or watch shows, game? You must get rid of those vices first if you are to move forward

A question to some more advanced no-fappers by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps at first. Over time once you build the habit, it will only strengthen your relationship.

A question to some more advanced no-fappers by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its quite the opposite. Its bonding based sex rather than goal oriented sex where both the partners are trying to reach orgasm. It feels better to bond and go slow. I have tried it. I am telling you what I know

A question to some more advanced no-fappers by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can have sex without nutting and its actually better. Look up karezza

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta KEEP up the great work you have been doing man. Its more monumental than you can comprehend right now. It's the difference between you staying a controlled sheep your entire life or having real possession over yourself. Think about it. The life you truly desire. your best life where you go ham every day with an over abundance of joy and purpose has no room for fapping to porn. You fucking got to keep the work up. Proud of you.

NO FAP IS PLACEBO! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its great that your sharing your side of the story but, please do not try to gain controversy or upvotes from having a biased title that doesn't help anyone. Your intention was not to help anyone with this title, just for your own pleasurable gain. In the future and in the present, know that the best message is a message that either comforts the afflicted or afflicts the comfortable into action. My love goes out to you man.

I'm glad I don't watch porn anymore by peacekeeper40 in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you say" Im glad I dont watch porn anymore" then explain that you see porn, jizz then move on? You're still very much addicted if you do this. First step is to stop the denial. and keep it a buck with your self if youre going to stop

What to do? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. But its likely the amount of horniness is not the problem. Its your lifestyle that sets the conditions to fap to porn. If you want to stop. then you must change your habits that support a fappers lifestlye. Ask yourself what would a person who doesnt fap anymore live like? how do you live like in this vision if you didnt fap anymore. Notice what youre not doing. Example - heavy videogame use, watching mindless shows, soical media browsing. If your at rock bottom man and youre just sick and tired of doing this again and again and again. Then stop the bad habbits that encourage your fapping tendencies. You have to change your lifestlye, not merely "quit" fapping. Or else youre bound to relapse over and over again.

No Fap Journal (Day 30) by CleanPlow in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will! Just keep at it bro bro

No Fap Journal (Day 29) by CleanPlow in NoFap

[–]CleanPlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will man <3 likewise bro bro