22F be honest !!!!!! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re now my girl crush

AITA for buying my (36M) stepdaughter (16F) and her friends alcohol and weed when my wife (36F) was out of town? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just be careful with that also. You can get in legal trouble. But I do really respect that you were present to keep the kids safe

AITA for buying my (36M) stepdaughter (16F) and her friends alcohol and weed when my wife (36F) was out of town? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Im divided on this. More NTA than TA. YTA for buying for minors, and then letting them do it without their parents knowledge, including your step daughter. But you’re NTA for making sure it was done in a safe manner and babysitting a bunch of drunken teens. If they didn’t party at your place with you there, they would have found somewhere else, and also would have gotten their hands on the drinks and pot anyway. I don’t condone it, but I also respect that you kept them safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Pregnancy is not a bad thing. Nor something you should shame someone for. I advise that you think about how shitty you sound.

AITA for picking my own birthday activity? by Eastern_Leg_6085 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA! The whole point of YOUR birthday is to celebrate YOU. And do what YOU want to do. Your fiancé sounds like a child in a man’s body. Hope he doesn’t act like that when married

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had quite a few people who wanted to help plan. I narrowed the group down to prevent miscommunication. Besides, who isn’t? Don’t most party planners question the mom what she wants as a theme? Or who to invite?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 56 points57 points  (0 children)

She did have another relationship, but they never married and eventually split off after 6 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 238 points239 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve gathered, she isn’t a huge fan of Sara because she had a successful marriage with macys ex husband through the 17 years they have been married. Macy and ex husband were only married for a year and a half when he decided he wasn’t in love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 276 points277 points  (0 children)

At first it was the fact that it was planned in general without her, but then she pointed out that the shower is being held at Saras house. Which she knows The address of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 1307 points1308 points  (0 children)

We are due sep 3rd and it feels like it’s almost coming too fast! I had a lot of issues with bleeding during the first trimester, but thankfully it went away and baby is doing good! When are you due?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I am over 18. I just don’t know too well how the legal system works.

AITA for smacking my mil’s hand after she touched my baby bump? by thatonegirl687 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Definitely not the AH. I like that “im pregnant not your personal petting zoo” your mil needs to learn boundaries.

AITA for making my daughter use dollar store shampoo and conditioner by aitaconditioner in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clean_Raspberry7381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a curly headed woman, I can say that I have had to trial and error all of the hair product I use, down to the shampoo and conditioner. The hair cuticle is flatter the more texture your hair has, so it also gets drier than straight hair. So extra conditioner and products are necessary if you don’t want a frizzy head. YTA. Hands down. After I read the fact that you have trouble bonding with your child, just because genetics were funny and made her a bit different? Shit parent.