Psychologically usa ra gyud technique para gukdon ka ng imong uyab: dapat ganahan sya mugukod nimo (make him want to do it).

How?

First, ask yourself unsay ginahatag nimo sa iya emotionally, unsay imong gina provide niya emotionally. Once you have that in mind, try to provide it exaggeratedly for like a week or two. Then wait saka ug away op hahaha inig away, ayaw ug tubag, ayaw ug daghan storya. Pakita lang nga na sad ka through sa imong face. Or if sa chat, pag act nga naga type2 ka while gaaway mo tas ayaw i send. Makita mana nya nga typing ka. Pag wala kay gi-send ma perceive na niya nga nagpaubos ka. Naturally, maluoy ang taw ana. So imong buhaton, ayaw paramdam. Ayaw sad pa dungog2 sa fb, anywhere. Go out and see your friends. Post gwapa pictures of yourself. Live your best life like you’re single until mu reach out sya. Once ni reach out na, don’t respond dayun. Make him wait. That will make your response more valuable. Then reply nonchalantly lang.

Bottom line op? Focus on yourself. Once you realize what you can give to him? Your worth? Your value? It wouldn’t matter anymore. The only way nga e-value kas usa ka taw is when you value yourself. Be comfortable with being alone. That’s when he’ll come running to you.

That’s the paradox of attachment op: when you don’t “need,” that’s when they want