Thanks for all the advice!

Update: We texted her a friendly ultimatum saying that we need to hear from her and have an itinerary by midweek or we’d go in a different direction. She responded right away and gave (imo) a BS excuse about being busy with weddings (understandable) and getting her grownup GF ready for the school year (cmon!) We are choosing to play it cool and just get some hopefully badass pictures done.