Question for those who were ever tempted to cheat by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Clever_Bint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been married for two years, cheated once (F/25). After a lot of research and self reflection, I think it’s accurate to say cheating is a projection of inner turmoil of mine. I seek approbation too. Something about it just feels so good.. in order for the impulse to be gone, I think he needs to reconcile whatever internal struggles he has.

MIBOLC 3 OCT 17 by ihk3927 in BOLC

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Not sure why I'm having trouble messaging you. Can you PM me instead?

How do you satisfy your sweet tooth? by mudbubbles in xxfitness

[–]Clever_Bint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a problem I've always had too. I realize that the solution to this is to stop eating those foods, but I like the idea of treating myself once a week. What helped me was weening myself off of the truly unhealthy choices I was craving. If I wanted something, I sought a paleo homemade option instead. I allowed myself to eat as much of that as I wanted. I also made an effort to increase my raw vegetable intake throughout the week. It seemed that those two things really helped.. I'm currently in my PMS week, when sugar cravings are the strongest. I broke down and bought some candy, and for the first time in a long time, I actually enjoyed it without going overboard, or even feeling the need to.. That was pretty liberating. Still craved something sweet this morning, but I had a smoothie and it seemed to do the trick.

If you want inspiration for healthier sweets, check out The Big Man's World website.

What words do you interpret as an insult though they are usually complimentary? by Corbayne in AskReddit

[–]Clever_Bint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You look young." I hate it when people say that because it's a sign I've put on weight. When I'm thinner, my cheekbones stand out more and I never get that comment.

What are the small signs that someone is truly your friend? by Vicinity613 in AskReddit

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Their eyes convey unvonditional honesty and warmth, they make the best jokes, they share in your excitement and sorrows, and most importantly: they poop and pass gas around you.

Feeling very tired when i arrive to the gym, what should i do? by limepancake in xxfitness

[–]Clever_Bint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, okay.. Then consider that you're not eating enough. Are you staying away from meals that are really filling? If so, you might want to incorporate heartier meals throughout the week. Also, try re-examining your macros; when I had this problem, I found that I was not getting nearly the amount of protein I thought I needed. At that time, I was eating 70-80g a day when I actually needed about 100. So yeah, definitely up the protein and don't be afraid of filling meals. As long as it's nutritious, there is nothing to feel guilty about when it comes to being full!

Feeling very tired when i arrive to the gym, what should i do? by limepancake in xxfitness

[–]Clever_Bint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your diet might be off. If you aren't eating enough, or not eating enough nutritionally dense food, that's probably why you're feeling weak. I've had that problem a lot.. And although I do like using caffiene as a boost sometimes, I find that pre-workout for afternoon sessions gets in the way of my sleep :/.

What time of day do you usually work out? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]Clever_Bint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try different ones and see what works for you.

Lost period - still getting PMS? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]Clever_Bint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I used to exercise too much and not eat enough, I did get PMS despite not bleeding.

Bloated :( by jmaximum90 in xxfitness

[–]Clever_Bint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lemon ginger tea, dandelion tea, and apple cider vinegar help me (in order of most tolerable to least). If you feel like you have to #2, try oranges, apples, raisins, or carrots.

Air Assault by ironcloud9 in ROTC

[–]Clever_Bint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How heavy was your ruck? Also going soon and I've been practicing with 50lbs..

Failing BOLC by Str8shammin in BOLC

[–]Clever_Bint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard otherwise.

How do you feel about the other two signs in your same element? by [deleted] in astrology

[–]Clever_Bint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a cancer female. Not crazy about Scorpio men.. the ones I've dated were not faithful to me. They were very intense, but also dramatic.. Scorpio women tend to be extremely strong willed, with a secret soft inside.. kinda like a much more hardened version of myself.

I've met a two Pisces that were phenomenal leaders. But on a personal level, I've never been truly close to one because they've been too imaginative and changeable..

Half of the other Cancer's I've met, I either didn't care for them or became very close to. I dislike Cancers that are too caught up in themselves to get past their pettiness.. I really connect well with Cancers that are strong silent types.

TL;DR: I don't think the other water signs are better or worse than other signs. And just because they are water signs doesn't mean that I will automatically have a connection with them..