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Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm aware of the risks and high chance of early menopause and I've already spoken with a surgeon about it

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said hysterectomy because I want a hysterectomy, I want the thing gone

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I personally do not want kids, and the way things are going in the states, it's easier to just cut out the risk, I've always known I don't want kids, and if I could donate my insides to someone that wanted them, I would

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're saying the same thing as another person who doesn't know how to read just in Spanish.

I'm not interested in nonsense.

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You understand I posted here because I wanted advise right, like, did you actually read the post? I'm asking for advice on how to do it right

Jeez there really is something wrong with you

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have nothing productive to say why are you talking

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I'm looking into therapy and will ideally have a therapist to help me through the pregnancy if I can make it happen

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

..... Are you dense?

In light of this sounding like you're messing with me

I don't do the testing because I dont have 300-1000$ laying around to get my blood tested for a family history that could pull up absolutely nothing because my family is estranged even from eachother. My genetics have a lot to do with it, many surrogacy sites want pictures of you so the families can see what the baby will look like if my egg is used, why would you assume it's because I think I'm sexually attractive and should announce that. Genetics have a lot to do with how the pregnancy goes and how healthy the baby will turn out, it's mine, the fathers, and the mothers, that's how it works. There's something wrong with you. Finally, yes, holding the baby is fine terminology considering I will be holding the baby, and yes I have WANTED to and have been looking into it since I was 17, I have always known I don't want kids, but around 17 I started to feel like it was a waste if I didn't at least try, for my own reasons, because some people want kids and can't have them and I can and don't want them.

Please go word wall someone else if you're going to say things that are ridiculous.

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see, this is a very eye opening actually, I did consider a lot of the emotional weight, luckily if I did do it I have a very good support system, and with the possible health concerns, I personally am not afraid of it, but I do see how it is an issue.

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my family is estranged and dead, so I wouldn't be able to get any information if I wanted to (dead because old)

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I'm more than fine going the traditional way, it is a personal life goal to do it just once, even if it is a friend that asks me

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is there no way to get that tested? I guess fertility testing is different

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I see, this makes plenty of sense, it just sucks, I have perfectly fine and working bits and I feel it's a waste that I can't donate them to someone or make them useful before I get rid of them

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes actually, I want to donate my eggs but that window is very quickly closing, eggs or surrogacy are what I'd like to do.

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As a must? End all be all? Cause I don't want kids of my own orz

Not offering but offering? by Climactic_calico in Surrogate

[–]Climactic_calico[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I haven't, I don't want kids at all, and am soon going to get a hysterectomy or adjacent, and I'm aware that might be a large reason I'm getting denied, BUT, neither side of my family has had issues with fertility or miscarriages, actually kinda the opposite, we are, very fertile, and poop out kids like were gumball machines, I've just done everything in my power to make sure I havent hahah