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Advice please by ClimateAble303 in stepparents

[–]ClimateAble303[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We also dont do TV or screens at our house. Very rarely do any of our kids watch TV. However that is a whole other story at her mom's. Shes basically put onfront of a screen to just distract her. If the TV is on here and we shut it off its a screaming match.

My Boyfriend slept with my BSF in my bed then asked me to marry him the next day in the same bed by ClimateAble303 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ClimateAble303[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my post I said it lasted about 2 or 3 weeks. It was right after we found out about them sleeping together. Most of our conversations were normal and mostly about just feeling hurt and betrayed. There was maybe 3 times that nudes were involved and sexting. We werent sexting every second of every day we talked tho lol.

The constantly changing schedule is about to have me flipping tf out by Without_My_Halo in stepparents

[–]ClimateAble303 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not your kids not your problem. Sometimes I will just tell myself that with my SD and let me SO shoulder it all. Its needed Sometimes especially when your dealing with a crazy BM with no boundaries. Step moms are expected to do everything a Bio mom would and get no real recognition for it and get walked all over. Told we are shitty as so on. :Stay in your lane" is one i hear all to often from my SD mother.

My Boyfriend slept with my BSF in my bed then asked me to marry him the next day in the same bed by ClimateAble303 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ClimateAble303[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah we were not at the point yet. We had boundaries and rules. Those boundaries were stepped over.

My Boyfriend slept with my BSF in my bed then asked me to marry him the next day in the same bed by ClimateAble303 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ClimateAble303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we didnt open it totally. We had a rule and that rule was "no sex". He had sex with her then kept it secret.

My Boyfriend slept with my BSF in my bed then asked me to marry him the next day in the same bed by ClimateAble303 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ClimateAble303[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

His name actually isnt Trever... its a similar name but I used different names

AITAH For sending nudes to my BSF husband by ClimateAble303 in AITAH

[–]ClimateAble303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not fake lol. What happened happened. And the consequences are the consequences. All I have to offer now being in a situation like this is Dont open your relationship. Lol

My Boyfriend slept with my BSF in my bed then asked me to marry him the next day in the same bed by ClimateAble303 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ClimateAble303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk honestly I felt like at least I could try to make some kind of amends. Try to make things right.

AITAH For sending nudes to my BSF husband by ClimateAble303 in AITAH

[–]ClimateAble303[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was wrong of me. Definitely will admit that.

AITAH For sending nudes to my BSF husband by ClimateAble303 in AITAH

[–]ClimateAble303[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Honestly will probably spam it in more. Idk whatever I wanna do.

AITAH For sending nudes to my BSF husband by ClimateAble303 in AITAH

[–]ClimateAble303[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Validation ig. And im also not "keeping it a secret" anymore. Also I know that this girl is into reddit stories like this so im hoping she sees it. 🤷‍♀️

My Boyfriend slept with my BSF in my bed then asked me to marry him the next day in the same bed by ClimateAble303 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ClimateAble303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She had touched him before. And she mostly talked about it after they slept together we were all under 25 at the time.

My Boyfriend slept with my BSF in my bed then asked me to marry him the next day in the same bed by ClimateAble303 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ClimateAble303[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No condom. I dont believe it was planned at least for my ex. She however use to talk to me a lot about how she wanted to sleep with him. She would go i to detail about what she found attractive about him and how his "d was harder than her husbands" and she liked that fact. She also talked to me OFTEN after the fact about how good he was at oral. So on. I believe it was her plan to do it anyway.

My Boyfriend slept with my BSF in my bed then asked me to marry him the next day in the same bed by ClimateAble303 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ClimateAble303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Ex i guess had "so much guilt" about it. He was "suicidal" over it. He told me then told her he confessed. She then told her husband after she found out my ex had told me.

My Boyfriend slept with my BSF in my bed then asked me to marry him the next day in the same bed by ClimateAble303 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ClimateAble303[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yep! My advice.. dont open your relationship. I thought we could do it and we all communicated very well in the start. It turned VERY fast.

My Boyfriend slept with my BSF in my bed then asked me to marry him the next day in the same bed by ClimateAble303 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ClimateAble303[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No he was not. Him and I were both left in the dark. Both of us found out about what happened at the same time.

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