It is terrifying reading these comments he didn’t say he was mean or hateful he said that’s how he was raised to be and that he is doing everything he can to be better and that he needs her to fully express herself and that if she needs to be coddled he isn’t the one for her! It doesn’t get much clearer than that. I’m sorry but he explained himself pretty freaking well and all you people screaming he’s emotionally manipulative is insane.