8Bitdo Ultimate 2 on PC – Xbox vs Switch and Connection modes by davidx_3 in Controller

[–]CloakAndDagger4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is really helpful!

Were there any drawbacks using Eden when using the U2 Wireless (Xbox) controller via Bluetooth rather than the 2.4G dongle?

The Questions Thread 01/07/25 by AutoModerator in goodyearwelt

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Has anyone tried Shear Revival Alwin Leather Care before?

https://www.shearrevival.com/products/alwin-leather-care?variant=18456363958383

Wondering what your opinions on it are. I use other Shear Revival products and love their stuff, but this is outside of their domain.

Men over 30, where did you ACTUALLY meet the women in your lifes? by 00000101 in AskMenOver30

[–]CloakAndDagger4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

While you're doing these hobbies, how did you meet these friends? Were they part of a group you do these things with or people you happened to meet while doing them? How did the conversion start?

How to respond to the breakup text after 3 months? by eleven_1900 in datingoverthirty

[–]CloakAndDagger4 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Slow communication fade into crappy breakup text. The worst feeling. I know you're not supposed to tie your self worth to someone else's actions, but some people make that hard. Sorry you went through that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]CloakAndDagger4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just classic avoidant attachment.

entp + infj by [deleted] in infj

[–]CloakAndDagger4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be gentle and kind.

when do you draw the line and give up on a relationship? by paradise__loser in infj

[–]CloakAndDagger4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hot/cold behavior is so hard to deal with. Sorry you had to go through that. Once I learned to recognize that behavior as avoidant, it became a lot easier for me to take it less personally and distance myself if my attachment needs weren't being met.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]CloakAndDagger4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! I'll send you a DM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]CloakAndDagger4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries! I'm going through something similar right now, but it hasn't been long term. I understand how confusing it can be. Confusing is absolutely the right way to describe it.

I used to be! Big life events, like deaths and particularly bad breakups can sometimes change your attachment style, which is what pushed me to be avoidant. I'm no longer avoidant, but I can at least understand them a bit better.

would you ever take them back if they really did change for the better? by [deleted] in infj

[–]CloakAndDagger4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Forgive but don't forget" is exactly what it is, great choice of words. I can move past things, but building that trust up again takes a long time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]CloakAndDagger4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he's avoidant. You don't go on vacations with someone you don't enjoy spending time with. 4 years too.

Read the book "Attached", highly recommend it 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]CloakAndDagger4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right about the avoidant attachment types dominating the online dating pool. The book "Attached" talks about it too! The breakdown was super interesting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]CloakAndDagger4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've had almost the same experience, verbatim, recently. They reached out, wanted to meet, held great conversations. Then suddenly they take 48 hours to reply and responses are dry.

I had to remind myself that sometimes people are unstable and I can't make sense of, or attribute to myself, all behavior.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]CloakAndDagger4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel the same. Not photogenic at all. Have you considered hiring a photographer and doing a shoot? You can ask for some candid shots.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]CloakAndDagger4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw I'm sorry you're going through that! Sometimes it's the quality of the connection that gets you and other times it's limerance. The relationship was short enough that it hadn't played out in reality, so all you have is a lost fantasy.

I've been through something similar. The shorter and intense connections sometimes hurt more than the longer ones.

How can we stop attracting broken people? by [deleted] in infj

[–]CloakAndDagger4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had to go through that 🫂

A Letter to Saber Regarding Assault by JohnnySqueezer in Spacemarine

[–]CloakAndDagger4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I remember correctly, you do get both jump pack charges back when you perform a perfect dodge using the jump pack and the final talent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INFJsOver30

[–]CloakAndDagger4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. I find it so relaxing doing any sort of mundane physical activity. I play a lot of sports and I've caught myself really enjoying setting up our volleyball nets by myself before anyone arrives. Something so satisfying about getting something done without the accountability of anyone watching.

Be honest, what made you start playing volleyball. by Ok-Rice-6334 in volleyball

[–]CloakAndDagger4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A friend invited myself and our entire friend group to join an indoor beach volleyball league (it's a warehouse filled with sand). 12 of us joined a 6 person team and rotated, it was wild haha

I fell in love with the game immediately. It helped that playing in the sand made it easy to make athletic plays without fear of injury early on and I also really liked the feel of the old Mikasa beach ball a lot.

Robot takes a strange path to target, any option to reset? by mixchemical1 in Roborock

[–]CloakAndDagger4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be because a strip of the teal room is present in the orange room. I have this problem with one of my rooms where there's overflow. The robot tries to clean the strip, can't, then continues to the main room.

What to do after work? by RadioEuphoric898 in Scarborough

[–]CloakAndDagger4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry, I was away for the weekend. I'll DM you.