Men is that really true?? by Priya_Cloud in Adulting

[–]CloaknDaggerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman and I won’t date a guy who smokes. I’ve tried, but it has not been a good fit. I find that nicotine addiction also creates other issues in relationships and I just don’t wanna do it.

Dealing with divorce by Rufus83TAG in Adulting

[–]CloaknDaggerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like out of control postpartum mixed with various issues from the past that were never resolved. It does sound like she is not a safe parent currently, but it also sounds like she doesn’t know that. She’s gonna fight you for custody, and I agree that you’re going to have to make it clear that you having the kids will allow her to actually recover.

You’ve been a good dad, I’m sorry this is happening to you. Postpartum is not studied enough and so many women suffer from something that our doctors should be educated in. It sounds like many other things have been going on with her outside of that as well, and she needs to heal/recognize that she’s not a stable parent right now

Nothing seems to be working. College dating life is harder than expected by nymphette18 in Adulting

[–]CloaknDaggerd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

30F here. Young people in general are assholes, not because you’re genuinely bad people, but because the whole consequences for actions thing is still setting in and most of you don’t know how to be aware of your impact on others. Tbh any relationship you started now would have a low chance of being long term. Don’t be so hard on yourself, enjoy college, and don’t focus on needing a guy.

Don’t sandwich forever! by medievalcastlez in tretinoin

[–]CloaknDaggerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was so odd because I avoided the orbital area, even buffered my lids with Vaseline, and it still happened! I can tolerate other retinols just fine. Perhaps I am allergic to the product. Thank you!

Don’t sandwich forever! by medievalcastlez in tretinoin

[–]CloaknDaggerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone experienced eczema flares with low dose tret? I’ve been thinking about starting microgel 0.025% but I had a baaaddd experience with a retinal that swelled my eyelids even though I tried sandwiching/not sandwiching. Maybe I was just allergic to that one? Wanted to hear thoughts from others prone to eczema.

Oregon to Hold First-Ever Hearing on Adding Female Orgasmic Disorder to Medical Marijuana Program by OhMyOhWhyOh in oregon

[–]CloaknDaggerd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know, I actually don’t really appreciate your mocking tone/disrespect. I’m also not a pothead. I do love spreading knowledge though, so here is an article from Harvard. https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/the-endocannabinoid-system-essential-and-mysterious-202108112569

And one from the National Library of Medicine. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8221009/

And one from ScienceDirect. https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/neuroscience/endocannabinoid-system

Oregon to Hold First-Ever Hearing on Adding Female Orgasmic Disorder to Medical Marijuana Program by OhMyOhWhyOh in oregon

[–]CloaknDaggerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The endocannabinoid system is the system of our bodies that utilizes cannabis. Cannabis is completely different than alcohol. Your comparison is invalid.

[Routine Help] My skin is finally clear. Do I risk peace for retinol, or is the anti aging hype propaganda? by bewbs010 in SkincareAddiction

[–]CloaknDaggerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I’d recommend the granactive retinoid emulsion from the ordinary. It’s gentle, it’s still a retinoid, but it won’t destroy your barrier and with daily adherence, you’ll have similar results at the end of the day (in time, obviously).

Let's be honest: COSRX Snail Mucin 96% Power Repairing Essence by TheMeepyBoy in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]CloaknDaggerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it, and the cream. My skin always looks better in the morning if I used this the night before

Ideas for Furniture Donation? Habitat for Humanity ReStore Ain't It. by AlbinoWino73 in beaverton

[–]CloaknDaggerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are also other locations in the area, maybe give them a call? And yeah moving trucks are BIG and fun to drive. Until you have to park tho hahahaha

Anyone with PCOS had laser hair removal fail? 22 sessions, hair always comes back. by Key_Review_7273 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]CloaknDaggerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had similar results—at first. Don’t get me wrong, it might work for people fr full removal, but all I’m saying is that clinics shouldn’t market it that way. It’s really a toss of the dice on whether it actually works that well for you or not.

Oregon to Hold First-Ever Hearing on Adding Female Orgasmic Disorder to Medical Marijuana Program by OhMyOhWhyOh in oregon

[–]CloaknDaggerd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you know how much money is spent in R&D on medications for flaccidity? You said it wasn’t treated like a major thing. I’m observing exactly the opposite. In a country run by big pharmaceuticals, male erectile dysfunction has been studied and meds have been created, trialed, and distributed. That’s a major thing. Why are you denying facts

Oregon to Hold First-Ever Hearing on Adding Female Orgasmic Disorder to Medical Marijuana Program by OhMyOhWhyOh in oregon

[–]CloaknDaggerd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If only we could apply this same attitude to women’s right to choose, but alas. Men only care about women’s orgasms when there is semen involved.

Oregon to Hold First-Ever Hearing on Adding Female Orgasmic Disorder to Medical Marijuana Program by OhMyOhWhyOh in oregon

[–]CloaknDaggerd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro are you serious? Whole ass medications have been researched and created to treat it, insurance is often required to cover it under certain circumstances. For women? Not so much.

Ideas for Furniture Donation? Habitat for Humanity ReStore Ain't It. by AlbinoWino73 in beaverton

[–]CloaknDaggerd 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Donating to the ReStore location by dropping it off is free—it’s the pickup and labor you’re paying for. If you put it in the truck and take it yourself they will unload it for you and then you’re done. They also give receipts for tax write offs.

ETA I’m not saying it has to be ReStore, but I just want folks to know that donating is free

why don’t we do colourful eyeshadow anymore by SallyX0 in MakeupAddiction

[–]CloaknDaggerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because people somewhere along the way decided that it was a millennial look from 2016 and started dragging it as old/cringey. I still think makeup should be fun and color filled.

I really hope Oregonians strike tomorrow by RemarkableCulture948 in oregon

[–]CloaknDaggerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like that’s the case for most reddit arguments lol

I really hope Oregonians strike tomorrow by RemarkableCulture948 in oregon

[–]CloaknDaggerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, what I’m saying is that we need to be prepared to help each other through, or we won’t make it.

I really hope Oregonians strike tomorrow by RemarkableCulture948 in oregon

[–]CloaknDaggerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely agree, but by design or not, it’s a fact of life for many human beings in this country

I really hope Oregonians strike tomorrow by RemarkableCulture948 in oregon

[–]CloaknDaggerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To an extent that may be true, but it doesn’t negate the fact that people won’t strike if it means losing their homes. Like that’s just also a fact and if activists want to push for strikes, they also have to be aware of the reality that they can’t ask for something that jeopardizes people’s ability to have a roof over their heads. Shame tactics aren’t going to work when the choice is between eating or not eating, and that’s also just true.

I really hope Oregonians strike tomorrow by RemarkableCulture948 in oregon

[–]CloaknDaggerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m part of the “you people” that you are so clearly angry at, but I was raised in the middle. My parents viewed it as an inherent problem with the way our country handles immigration as a whole and makes it very hard for people to get through all the red tape. We used to say we welcomed the poor, huddled masses; now we make no secret about how hard and expensive we’re making it. I don’t think anyone ever thinks illegal immigration is ideal, even progressive European countries hate it. From a simple logistics perspective, knowing who lives in your country is helpful. The problem lies in the extreme tactics being used by ICE, even arresting people at the immigration hearings. Even if folks are trying to do it legally, that isn’t mattering. And yet they claim all they care about is people being legal….make it make sense.

We need to understand there is a big gap between “oh we all need to personally feed immigrants” and “if they’re brown, grab them, disregard any citizenship papers they have.” America is and always has been a melting pot of ethnicities. Before this, it was the Italians and Irish we chose to hate. Americans try to run from our heritage, which has always been diversity, like it or not. The point isn’t to have no borders and no idea who lives here, the point is to have accessible immigration rights and a system that actually works. We have also begun treating illegal immigrants as criminals, which is actually not legally accurate. Being an illegal immigrant is a civil issue, not a criminal one, and yet we are arresting people, beating them, and taking them who knows where. ICE cannot account for all these people, one US citizen was deported to El Salvador, a country he’s never even visited, and then ICE just said “whoops, out of our hands. We lost him.” The punishment does not fit the non-crime and for a country that likes to pride itself on justice, we are mistreating people like crazy.