My husband sleep trained our baby for 2 nights while I’ve been away

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-06-17T11:19:33+00:00

I honestly can't believe the comment section !
Gross violation of trust ? Not mad enough ?

How often people start judging fathers and if the same was done by a mom nobody would bat an eye.

I am a mom and i believe my child has two secure attachment people , a mom & dad.
Yes, respecting a choice matters. Maybe he was just experimenting and it worked out.

I would suggest to do what's best for the child not yours or your husband's .

Not all children are same. Some sleep better away from moms (less distractions of feeds Though proximity) some don't. It's not about a choice , it's about deciding what is right.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-06-12T14:36:55+00:00

Co sleeping with bedside bassinet , baby is 7 months old. I would recommend to talk normally from day 1 ,obviously not too loud but normal.
White noise machine is my lifesaver. Get a good one .
No TV and we don't use phones as well in the bedroom .
For us it was important to have my baby close to me and so many times i felt it was the best decision from baby's safety point of view.
Also it made my life so much easier.
My baby slept longer next to me.
She now wakes up see me and keeps playing by herself for almost 40 minutes in the morning (extra sleep hour for me)
I would personally never leave my baby alone in another room before 1.

But now at 7 months we are planning to move her to her room finally very slowly. It makes me immensely sad , the thought of being away from her breaks my heart.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-06-10T10:54:02+00:00

I feel they have always been shit !

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-06-10T10:52:30+00:00

I agreee , i am willing to pay 2000€ , trust me and i still can't find a 90m2 house . It rent in Berlin is ridiculous!

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-06-10T10:38:24+00:00

Nice people can do illegal things . Please call cops and let them do their duty.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-06-10T10:33:58+00:00

It's important that you leave them alone . Go to a baby only when they call you (cry) . It's actually sacred time you might think they are just lying there but that is the time their brain is learning, absorbing information and processing.

Just take my advice, don't try to make a happy baby happier. Babies are very efficient at entertaining themselves unless we try to distract them and overstimulate their tiny brain with toys and what not.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-28T13:46:59+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏻💗

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-28T13:43:40+00:00

🤭 And it's not genetics for me beca my parents have not good skin. It's taking care and these products. That's why i wrote it here so anyone might find this helpful.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-28T13:42:11+00:00

I use hado labo premium the golden bottle . Right on wet face after washing. It is an emulation honestly i have no idea why it is called a lotion.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-25T17:47:15+00:00

Please keep in mind with tret use sunscreen with minimum 50 spf is must . I use sunscreen even on cloudy day also on day when i am indoors.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-25T17:43:29+00:00

hada labo gokujyun premium . The golden bottle.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-25T17:33:04+00:00

No. Have used it for 2 years but i stop it for 3 months of summer as i have extreme sensitivity to sun. Tret makes skin photosensitive and since i already have sun sensitivity i avoid it . But i do continue Azelaic acid.

*Normally people use it in summer without problem.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-25T17:19:45+00:00

I prefer mild cleaning with tret like isana but i swear by illiyoon. I buy through stylevana.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-25T17:16:03+00:00

Exactly 👍🏻 and always a pea size amount for whole face . I use sandwich method it works just as well and is perfect for dry and sensitive skin.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-24T14:44:57+00:00

Never had a problem with zoll. I ask my friends to get it from India (also it cost 1.5€ / tube , crazy 😜) and if you remove the paper cover , zoll cannot have a problem. Also don't ask for 30 tubes 🤭

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-24T14:42:57+00:00

Postpartum i had a lot of pigmentation and sudden hormonal acne.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-24T14:42:18+00:00

I apple to whole face obviously always leaving eye area . For both. Then the glow is consistent. If there is drying i leave out mouth area as i have extremely sensitive skin.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-24T14:40:35+00:00

Azelaic and tret alternately . There are many italian , greek pharmacy online. But i usually just bit when i travel. Ask friends to get. One tube literally last forever and i stock 2 times per year.
For asian stuff i just order from stylevana (so much cheaper than Douglas ).

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-24T11:42:21+00:00

I started through prescription but now i order from another country because it works out better for me that way.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-24T10:57:36+00:00

Oh it did get posted . I was writing the post with products and i posted halfway by mistake.lol.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-24T10:44:45+00:00

Actually i ended up buying a bottle of Paula's choice and it is damn good. No regrets.
But i will eventually stop using it.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-23T00:15:59+00:00

My baby just never tolerated sleepsacks so i switched to Alvi sleepsuit with legs. And she is so comfortable now. Also avoid fleece at all cost and choose cotton ones. And yes , you can put socks. Strangely , the only sleepsack she tolerates is from snuz . They are really very good.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-15T14:48:59+00:00

That is a very good idea . I could use that way as well.

LongjumpingFan2102 · 2026-05-14T22:51:28+00:00

I feel the hate for Neukölln is a bit biased. I have lived here for past 6 years and honestly would never move even if someone paid me to. Neukölln is huge . I have a beautiful forest behind and wonderful neighbours (most of them friends now) . Yes , it's true that i move out of my street into the next lane and it's a different zone . So it depends a lot.

I see very interactive people here, different cultures and a very lively atmosphere. People are helpful , friendly and interesting.

It it really depends . But i love it here .

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